double bonus hax chat q: she slept with a mutual acquaintance of BFs six years ago, but didn't feel the need to disclose now. he thinks she should
Posted by
moles (aka chris)
Apr 1 '11, 11:53
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Past Partners
Is who your past partners were any of your current partners business? My bf found out that I'd hooked up 6 years ago with someone he knows and doesn't like. When he'd asked if we'd ever dated, I honestly said no. I didn't volunteer that I'd slept with him. He feels I lied. I felt it wan't relevant to our relationship (the guy lives out of state and neither of us are in communication with him). Now he's furious and I think he's being ridiculous...we've been talking marriage! What's something six years ago got to do with now and where we're going?
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she should have denied til the end
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Epiphany
Apr 1, 12:02
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If she didn't think something that happened 6 years ago mattered then she shouldn't have lied about it. -- nm
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Ender
Apr 1, 12:00
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I don't "let" Mrs. Vermin talk about old boyfriends.
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Dr.Vermin
Apr 1, 11:59
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geez you people are uptight sometimes -- nm
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Guy
Apr 1, 11:58
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yeah, you lied to him, and no amount of hairsplitting over the word "dating" is going to change that. -- nm
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znufrii
Apr 1, 11:58
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The dude did specifically ask, she should have told him.
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musubi
Apr 1, 11:57
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"Dating", at least IMO, means people you hooked up with once. She new he'd be pissed when he asked and withheld the info
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TWuG
Apr 1, 11:56
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"You slept with Lumberg?!" -- nm
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Name Withheld By Request
Apr 1, 11:56
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Wow. HUGE mistake. -- nm
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Spawn
Apr 1, 11:53
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