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In response to "It's gone beyond that though, it's no longer about whether she slept with him, it's about her lying to him about it. -- nm" by Ender

we all understand that you can sleep with someone and not date them, right? honestly, i get why she just said 'no.' -- nm

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Apr 1 '11, 12:11

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I think we all know what the guy wanted to know, regardless of his word choice. - Dr.Vermin Apr 1, 12:21 1
- L4 at your IM -- nm - Guy Apr 1, 12:23
(as in, it so doesn't matter, and it wasn't a relationship, and she just never thought of it as 'dating') - Andie Apr 1, 12:12 12
- the guy should have been more specific in his questioning. :) -- nm - Guy Apr 1, 12:25
- This may be the first one of these I've ever disagreed with you about. - pmb Apr 1, 12:17 9
  - i agree it wasn't fully forthcoming, but i do get where she's coming from. -- nm - Andie Apr 1, 12:22
  - I....think....that's what Andie is saying. (nm) - musubi Apr 1, 12:20 7
    - I don't think so (but I could be wrong). I think she's saying that the woman answered the question correctly and honestly. - pmb Apr 1, 12:22 6
      - not exactly, i'm saying i can see why she's be okay answering it that way, and not feel like she was lying. - Andie Apr 1, 12:23 5
        
        So, "correctly", but not necessarily "honestly", right? (nm) - musubi Apr 1, 12:24 4
        
        totally. -- nm - Andie Apr 1, 12:26 2
        
        actually no, more like "honestly" but not "correctly." -- nm - Andie Apr 1, 12:26 1
        
        Ok, but what I'm not clear on is whether you think she answered "correctly". Because what I think I'm taking from your answer is that while you agree - pmb Apr 1, 12:33
        
        I can get on board that train. -- nm - loosilu Apr 1, 12:25
- Your IM is it. She said "no" because she could rationalize the decpetion. - musubi Apr 1, 12:15
She just said no because she could justify in her own mind that she wasn't "according to Hoyle" lying. - Jim Apr 1, 12:12
thank you. (and again, why are we explaining this to dudes?) -- nm - loosilu Apr 1, 12:11

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