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Ok ST I have a big problem and I need some advice

Posted by eag (aka eag) Apr 6 '11, 20:17

I sent Heidi some flowers today. Just a quick back story she has kind of hit the breaks on our relationship said she needed that wonderful word space there are some issues that I wont go into right now. Anyway acording to what I show she should have recieved the flowers around 5:30 but I havent heard from her. So I called I ordered them online and they said someone signed for them with her name at 3:38 now it could have been her kids cause she doesnt get home till 5. Anyway the flower company tried to get a hold of her for me but they couldnt. I dont want to call her cause I told her id give her space but I felt I needed to send the flowers. My concern is that they delivered them to the wrong address but I dont want to contact her or that she got them and is being a big beyotch and doesnt want to acknowlege it.

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I wouldn't expect to hear from her. it's a nice gesture, and she'll call you when she's ready. -- nm - mafic Apr 6, 20:30
As hard as it is, give her some space - amoxy Apr 6, 20:27 7
- Thats fine except I paid money for those flowers I just want to make sure she got them - eag Apr 6, 20:28 6
  - No, subconsciously you want to use them as an excuse to talk to her. Assume they were delivered, and she'll call you when she's ready. - JaxSean Apr 6, 20:32 2
    - I say this because we've all been there: The next step is finding one of her hair clips in your car and convincing yourself you need to return it. nm - ralph wiggum Apr 6, 20:36 1
      - Why are you finding girl's hair clips in your car, wiggums? -- nm - JaxSean Apr 6, 20:38
  - think. what's more likely? she got them and still wants some space. or a company whose job it is to find people and deliver flowers failed at their - moles Apr 6, 20:30 2
    - I would at least send a text to me that says thanks and thats it -- nm - eag Apr 6, 20:32 1
      - "space" -- nm - moles Apr 6, 20:32
Just my opinion: - MDH Apr 6, 20:23 3
- Well her kids are about to go to bed so if she was waiting ill hear from her soon -- nm - eag Apr 6, 20:27
- just be honest - moles Apr 6, 20:24
- But yeah, I agree with below, don't call. That's a deal breaker. -- nm - MDH Apr 6, 20:24
space means space - moles Apr 6, 20:21
Just leave it alone. You'll find out eventually - otherwise you'll come off as overbearing. -- nm - JaxSean Apr 6, 20:21
do not call. just assume they were delivered, and try to put it out of your mind. -- nm - prayformojo Apr 6, 20:21 4
- Just keep watching this and telling yourself you don't want to be this guy (nmblink) - ralph wiggum Apr 6, 20:27 [youtube] 3
  - you stole my IM! - moles Apr 6, 20:29 2
    - Well, it is the gold standard for the dating category of Don't Be That Guy. nm - ralph wiggum Apr 6, 20:31 1
      - i guess i can take some small comfort that i've never imploded like that. close. very close. - moles Apr 6, 20:32

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