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In response to "friday hax chat q: they had always planned for a family until a year ago, when he said he didn't want kids. then he tried to buy her acceptance" by moles

It really sucks that he's changing his mind about such a big thing so suddenly. But I suppose you have to sorta respect his decision, to a point.

Posted by Dr.Vermin (aka Dr.Vermin) Apr 8 '11, 09:41

I mean, you don't want to force a kid onto someone who doesn't want to be a parent, I guess.

As a blissful new parent I think his choice is the wrong one, but... I dunno. I don't think trying to change his mind is unreasonable.

A good sub-poll would be to list some movies that make fatherhood look 'fulfilling' that she can bring home.

Knocked Up? About a Boy?

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And to be fair, I would rather him be honest about it now than fake it and come clean after the kid is born. -- nm - Strongbad Apr 8, 09:48
To a point? You pretty much have to respect it completely. -- nm - mara Apr 8, 09:41 3
- If it's the result of a recent 180, no, I can't respect it fully. - Dr.Vermin Apr 8, 09:47 1
  - I think it's a "I have a great life already. Why would I want to risk that by having kids?" decision - Roger More Apr 8, 09:49
- or just poke a few holes in the condoms. -- nm - mafic Apr 8, 09:44

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It really sucks that he's changing his mind about such a big thing so suddenly. But I suppose you have to sorta respect his decision, to a point.

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