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"
On a very special ST -- nm
"
by
Bacon
I love the way it's like eag is the scantily clad sorority girl in the horror movie and we're all screaming at him not to go in that dark room. nm
Posted by
ralph wiggum (aka Wiggum17)
Apr 14 '11, 21:56
nm
Responses:
I enjoy the advise half serious and have humourous it makes a frustrating situatuion not so much -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:01
61
It hurts that's for sure. I still would rather be dumped that dump them.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:05
60
I would rather dump them, every time. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:18
9
I know my friends think I am nuts. Guilt does a mindfuck on me though.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:19
8
it's very simple to me. If I'm going to dump them, that's inevitable. Hanging on would be far worse. Dumping them is the best way.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:21
7
Oh I do it. I just hate doing it. It lingers for awhile.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:38
6
it doesn't eat at me at all. maybe I am an evil beyotch.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:40
5
I am in the minority. I know that. -- nm
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:41
4
I am not sure that's true. I've heard many people say that.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:43
2
My friends agree with you. I think it's because me dumping someone is my choice to reject them. Being dumped is out of my hands.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:45
1
Me not liking them is out of my control. dumping them is necessary.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:49
I am with you there. -- nm
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Spawn
Apr 14, 22:43
It might be wishful thinking but I think things will still work out
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eag
Apr 14, 22:08
49
I just know what I have read here. Which gives me little perspective other than experiences I have had with women myself.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:13
48
We were on the brink of a relationship and she hit the breaks hard, why?
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eag
Apr 14, 22:20
36
[deleted]
Oh and a little more background on her
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eag
Apr 14, 23:05
12
maybe you have smacked her around a bit, you know, to get her attention...made her write bad checks for you -- nm
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zeitgeist
Apr 14, 23:19
it doesn't matter. given her history, I'd say it is likely the better you are for her, the faster she will run. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 23:15
1
I actually agree with that
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eag
Apr 14, 23:19
however much space she's asking for, multiply it by like a million -- nm
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moles
Apr 14, 23:08
You may be the best guy on paper but love is blind. -- nm
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Bacon on a droid
Apr 14, 23:07
7
All im saying
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eag
Apr 14, 23:14
6
I think you are totally wrong. You have overthought this to oblivian.
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Bacon on a droid
Apr 14, 23:19
1
Well she isnt going out of her way to return it
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eag
Apr 14, 23:25
if she was hurting more, she'd be calling you right now.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 23:17
3
I mean long term not now -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 23:20
2
come back in a year and we'll see. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 23:20
1
Like she would tell me if it were the case
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eag
Apr 14, 23:27
I think she was in 'love' with the idea of being in love, but not in love with you...but also I think we've all been in a situation where the gal is..
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zeitgeist
Apr 14, 22:33
It never makes sense to the other person. I don't know. Rarely do you get the honest answers.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:26
15
it's not even sugarcoating. I think a lot of the time they just honestly don't know. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:32
8
I think this aplies to her -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:36
7
two weeks ago I asked my college ex why he ran. he still doesn't know.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:37
6
I will lie if it's a bad reason. Make up something more sincere. -- nm
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:40
5
yeah, I'm sure there are reasons I'd be happier not to ever hear. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:41
4
The only time I give real reasons is if they get mad at me for dumping them.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:43
3
that's a bad reason? damn you're a nice guy.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:44
2
A controlling woman is what I hate the most.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:47
1
"you're a controlling bitch". that's what you would say if you weren't a nice guy. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:49
I just never had an almost relationship before
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eag
Apr 14, 22:30
5
I have had many. Remember that heartbreak I had over a whole summer with Waterskiing Trip woman? That was horrible.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:32
2
shit, I still have to talk myself down from contacting crazy art teacher. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:33
1
or buying masticationstation.com ...... ;-) -- nm
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Beryllium
Apr 14, 23:29
well now you have. chalk it up to experience and move on -- nm
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moles
Apr 14, 22:31
honey, I have had more than I can count.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:31
it doesn't matter. it really, really doesn't. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:21
4
And if it were you
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eag
Apr 14, 22:25
2
the why will drive you crazy. sometimes it isn't even there. at least not in a reasonable way. -- nm
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mafic
Apr 14, 23:01
I have learned not to ask. it only makes things worse. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:30
Im just explaining to Bacon about it -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:23
this is good advice. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:19
That said. Definitely don't pursue, ask questions about when, where, why? Don't chase, send flowers, cards emails.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:18
9
I dont have a car and we dont have common friends -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:22
8
not the point. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:23
7
Like I said
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eag
Apr 14, 22:27
6
Everyone is just giving you their honest advice. You will either choose to take it or not. I do know this.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:30
5
Thats why im not repeating what I did last week. -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:33
4
I will say this. Maybe it will make you feel better or it won't. Nothing you do is going to fix it.
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:37
3
Kind of disagree
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eag
Apr 14, 22:44
2
I have to say Bacon is right. "being supportive" will drive her away.
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:51
1
Your not getting what I mean
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eag
Apr 14, 22:55
.... but he goes anyway. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 21:58
But if he just says the magic words...
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Reagen
Apr 14, 21:57
10
The girl version is: "Maybe if I sleep with him, he'll think I'm so sexy he'll definitely fall for me." nm
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ralph wiggum
Apr 14, 22:00
9
I enjoy the girl version a lot more. -- nm
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mafic
Apr 14, 22:20
i've spent my life around the wrong girls, obviously -- nm
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moles
Apr 14, 22:01
1
I wouldn't say that. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:02
you read my diary???
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:00
5
ST is my diary -- nm
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:04
2
And your drug -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:05
1
I love an audience. WHAT A RUSH! -- nm
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Bacon
Apr 14, 22:06
Not even a journal? -- nm
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eag
Apr 14, 22:02
1
hell not. mom snooped then gave me shit for what I wrote. I quit after a week. -- nm
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loosilu
Apr 14, 22:03
Just run out the front door! -- nm
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MDH
Apr 14, 21:56
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