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In response to "I love the way it's like eag is the scantily clad sorority girl in the horror movie and we're all screaming at him not to go in that dark room. nm" by ralph wiggum

I enjoy the advise half serious and have humourous it makes a frustrating situatuion not so much -- nm

Posted by eag (aka eag) Apr 14 '11, 22:01

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It hurts that's for sure. I still would rather be dumped that dump them. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:05 60
- I would rather dump them, every time. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:18 9
  - I know my friends think I am nuts. Guilt does a mindfuck on me though. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:19 8
    - it's very simple to me. If I'm going to dump them, that's inevitable. Hanging on would be far worse. Dumping them is the best way. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:21 7
      - Oh I do it. I just hate doing it. It lingers for awhile. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:38 6
        
        it doesn't eat at me at all. maybe I am an evil beyotch. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:40 5
        
        I am in the minority. I know that. -- nm - Bacon Apr 14, 22:41 4
        
        I am not sure that's true. I've heard many people say that. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:43 2
        
        My friends agree with you. I think it's because me dumping someone is my choice to reject them. Being dumped is out of my hands. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:45 1
        
        Me not liking them is out of my control. dumping them is necessary. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:49
        
        I am with you there. -- nm - Spawn Apr 14, 22:43
- It might be wishful thinking but I think things will still work out - eag Apr 14, 22:08 49
  - I just know what I have read here. Which gives me little perspective other than experiences I have had with women myself. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:13 48
    - We were on the brink of a relationship and she hit the breaks hard, why? - eag Apr 14, 22:20 36
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      - Oh and a little more background on her - eag Apr 14, 23:05 12
        
        maybe you have smacked her around a bit, you know, to get her attention...made her write bad checks for you -- nm - zeitgeist Apr 14, 23:19
        
        it doesn't matter. given her history, I'd say it is likely the better you are for her, the faster she will run. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 23:15 1
        
        I actually agree with that - eag Apr 14, 23:19
        
        however much space she's asking for, multiply it by like a million -- nm - moles Apr 14, 23:08
        
        You may be the best guy on paper but love is blind. -- nm - Bacon on a droid Apr 14, 23:07 7
        
        All im saying - eag Apr 14, 23:14 6
        
        I think you are totally wrong. You have overthought this to oblivian. - Bacon on a droid Apr 14, 23:19 1
        
        Well she isnt going out of her way to return it - eag Apr 14, 23:25
        
        if she was hurting more, she'd be calling you right now. - loosilu Apr 14, 23:17 3
        
        I mean long term not now -- nm - eag Apr 14, 23:20 2
        
        come back in a year and we'll see. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 23:20 1
        
        Like she would tell me if it were the case - eag Apr 14, 23:27
      - I think she was in 'love' with the idea of being in love, but not in love with you...but also I think we've all been in a situation where the gal is.. - zeitgeist Apr 14, 22:33
      - It never makes sense to the other person. I don't know. Rarely do you get the honest answers. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:26 15
        
        it's not even sugarcoating. I think a lot of the time they just honestly don't know. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:32 8
        
        I think this aplies to her -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:36 7
        
        two weeks ago I asked my college ex why he ran. he still doesn't know. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:37 6
        
        I will lie if it's a bad reason. Make up something more sincere. -- nm - Bacon Apr 14, 22:40 5
        
        yeah, I'm sure there are reasons I'd be happier not to ever hear. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:41 4
        
        The only time I give real reasons is if they get mad at me for dumping them. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:43 3
        
        that's a bad reason? damn you're a nice guy. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:44 2
        
        A controlling woman is what I hate the most. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:47 1
        
        "you're a controlling bitch". that's what you would say if you weren't a nice guy. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:49
        
        I just never had an almost relationship before - eag Apr 14, 22:30 5
        
        I have had many. Remember that heartbreak I had over a whole summer with Waterskiing Trip woman? That was horrible. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:32 2
        
        shit, I still have to talk myself down from contacting crazy art teacher. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:33 1
        
        or buying masticationstation.com ...... ;-) -- nm - Beryllium Apr 14, 23:29
        
        well now you have. chalk it up to experience and move on -- nm - moles Apr 14, 22:31
        
        honey, I have had more than I can count. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:31
      - it doesn't matter. it really, really doesn't. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:21 4
        
        And if it were you - eag Apr 14, 22:25 2
        
        the why will drive you crazy. sometimes it isn't even there. at least not in a reasonable way. -- nm - mafic Apr 14, 23:01
        
        I have learned not to ask. it only makes things worse. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:30
        
        Im just explaining to Bacon about it -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:23
    - this is good advice. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:19
    - That said. Definitely don't pursue, ask questions about when, where, why? Don't chase, send flowers, cards emails. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:18 9
      - I dont have a car and we dont have common friends -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:22 8
        
        not the point. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:23 7
        
        Like I said - eag Apr 14, 22:27 6
        
        Everyone is just giving you their honest advice. You will either choose to take it or not. I do know this. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:30 5
        
        Thats why im not repeating what I did last week. -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:33 4
        
        I will say this. Maybe it will make you feel better or it won't. Nothing you do is going to fix it. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:37 3
        
        Kind of disagree - eag Apr 14, 22:44 2
        
        I have to say Bacon is right. "being supportive" will drive her away. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:51 1
        
        Your not getting what I mean - eag Apr 14, 22:55

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