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We were on the brink of a relationship and she hit the breaks hard, why?

Posted by eag (aka eag) Apr 14 '11, 22:20

Cause in all her past relationships there has been a physical and sexual connection and attraction but never really an emotional one with me its the opposite there is a heavy verry intense emotional and spirtual one to the point where she is in love with me in those respects she told me herself but the physical acording to her isnt there. And she has a hard time with that.

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Oh and a little more background on her - eag Apr 14, 23:05 12
- maybe you have smacked her around a bit, you know, to get her attention...made her write bad checks for you -- nm - zeitgeist Apr 14, 23:19
- it doesn't matter. given her history, I'd say it is likely the better you are for her, the faster she will run. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 23:15 1
  - I actually agree with that - eag Apr 14, 23:19
- however much space she's asking for, multiply it by like a million -- nm - moles Apr 14, 23:08
- You may be the best guy on paper but love is blind. -- nm - Bacon on a droid Apr 14, 23:07 7
  - All im saying - eag Apr 14, 23:14 6
    - I think you are totally wrong. You have overthought this to oblivian. - Bacon on a droid Apr 14, 23:19 1
      - Well she isnt going out of her way to return it - eag Apr 14, 23:25
    - if she was hurting more, she'd be calling you right now. - loosilu Apr 14, 23:17 3
      - I mean long term not now -- nm - eag Apr 14, 23:20 2
        
        come back in a year and we'll see. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 23:20 1
        
        Like she would tell me if it were the case - eag Apr 14, 23:27
I think she was in 'love' with the idea of being in love, but not in love with you...but also I think we've all been in a situation where the gal is.. - zeitgeist Apr 14, 22:33
It never makes sense to the other person. I don't know. Rarely do you get the honest answers. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:26 15
- it's not even sugarcoating. I think a lot of the time they just honestly don't know. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:32 8
  - I think this aplies to her -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:36 7
    - two weeks ago I asked my college ex why he ran. he still doesn't know. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:37 6
      - I will lie if it's a bad reason. Make up something more sincere. -- nm - Bacon Apr 14, 22:40 5
        
        yeah, I'm sure there are reasons I'd be happier not to ever hear. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:41 4
        
        The only time I give real reasons is if they get mad at me for dumping them. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:43 3
        
        that's a bad reason? damn you're a nice guy. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:44 2
        
        A controlling woman is what I hate the most. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:47 1
        
        "you're a controlling bitch". that's what you would say if you weren't a nice guy. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:49
- I just never had an almost relationship before - eag Apr 14, 22:30 5
  - I have had many. Remember that heartbreak I had over a whole summer with Waterskiing Trip woman? That was horrible. - Bacon Apr 14, 22:32 2
    - shit, I still have to talk myself down from contacting crazy art teacher. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:33 1
      - or buying masticationstation.com ...... ;-) -- nm - Beryllium Apr 14, 23:29
  - well now you have. chalk it up to experience and move on -- nm - moles Apr 14, 22:31
  - honey, I have had more than I can count. - loosilu Apr 14, 22:31
it doesn't matter. it really, really doesn't. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:21 4
- And if it were you - eag Apr 14, 22:25 2
  - the why will drive you crazy. sometimes it isn't even there. at least not in a reasonable way. -- nm - mafic Apr 14, 23:01
  - I have learned not to ask. it only makes things worse. -- nm - loosilu Apr 14, 22:30
- Im just explaining to Bacon about it -- nm - eag Apr 14, 22:23

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