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In response to
"We were on the brink of a relationship and she hit the breaks hard, why?"
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eag
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It never makes sense to the other person. I don't know. Rarely do you get the honest answers.
Posted by
Bacon (aka redmond)
Apr 14 '11, 22:26
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They sugarcoat to make it easier on themselves. I had several relationships that I was very high on. A couple I have no clue where it went South. Out of the blue shocked me with being dumped.
People are always thinking. Is this person good enough. Am I good enough for them.
There is no book on the perfect relationship. We all have to guess at it. Is there a better fit for me? Is this the best I can do? Some have a lot of heat that fades quickly. Some are a slow steady burn that gets hotter more slowly.
Only she knows. But, she is definitely backing off. Everyone on this board knows that means you need to back off as well. Nothing good comes from hitting the gas peddle when a woman (or man for that matter) wants space.
She is thinking of her next move. OR she has already made it.
Unfortunately it takes two people to make it work. No matter how much you love her, if her head isn't in the game there is nothing you can do to change her mind.
I have been there many times. No magic pill, formula or spell that can change a persons mind that is set on something.
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