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In response to
"Wow, those are some...interesting...backboards. -- nm"
by
kelly
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Related to bbs: I have a friend who just came out to me last week - she is in her mid 30s - her parents have not taken it well, to put it mildly.
Posted by
kelly (aka kelly)
Dec 30 '08, 16:22
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I feel horrible for her. She told me and then was concerned I might not want to be her friend - I felt so horrible that she would have to be concerned about something like this.
Re: moving in together, I now think that the time spent dating is not such a big thing. If you know after 6 months that you want to move in together, good for you! It can definitely work. I think a bigger part of it is how much time you spend together during your time pre-move. Will and dated for over a year before moving in together, but I think the fact that we did not see each other more than once a month really affected things - not in a good or bad way, necessarily - but we have found things about each other that we did not know, that we might have if we had seen each other more often.
(I am happy we moved in together, but the going from once-a-month visits to seeing each other daily was definitely a 'challenge' I did not anticipate.)
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