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In response to
"Why do you keep saying that "
by
eag
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To be blunt, she just doesn't want to be with you, period. As for the "why", that's irrelevant. Knowing "why" isn't going to change anything. In fact,
Posted by
Trish (aka Trisha)
Apr 24 '11, 07:11
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if you hear her reason "why", you're likely to get either arguementative and in denial, "I never did that, she's crazy, I don't act like that", or totally depressed.
You don't need to know "why" in order to deal with it. All you have to know is that you developed feelings for someone and she didn't return them. It doesn't matter why. Emotions are neither right or wrong, they just are what they are. You were in a different place emotionally than she was, that's all the "why" you need to know.
The best thing you can do is be brutally honest with yourself. Sit down with a piece of paper and write down everything you did with her, when you did it, when you developed feelings, how were you dressed, are there some personal hygiene problems, etc. Then just analyze the items and see if there's anything you can learn from it for next time.
One last thing, if you have a chance to ask her "why", she's not going to tell you the truth anyway--that's another reason to do your own introspection.
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