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In response to "Stacy if you are here. I removed you from facebook friends because..." by Redmond

Why even mention it? Facebook doesn't let you know when you are defriended.

Posted by kelly (aka kelly) Jan 4 '09, 16:34

I have had to figure it out on my own, rather than get a FB notification.

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It was a good way to remind others as well of telling her why I did it. I am not mad, but I just don't want it to happen again. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:40 49
- so I should not post something there about your penis and that scab ridden hooker? nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:42 4
  - Everyone already knows about that. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:45 3
    - except the hooker. - groiny Jan 4, 16:49 2
      - it makes them fight back less -- nm - redmond s.i. Jan 4, 17:13
      - It's cheaper! -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:57
- good intel, but still it might have been more tactfully delivered via email. -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:42 43
  - I am not mad, so I don't consider it slamming her. It was more an FYI to her, and to others not to post things there, about what is said here. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:46 37
    - understanding this, but I'd like to remind you that you control what's said here. I'm not saying either is wrong, just that there may be a lack of - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:49 36
      - Yeah I get that. I have asked that things said on ST not be said on Facebook. I have different people that view that page, than here. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:50 31
        
        maybe you should set up a seperate facebook page for ST? - groiny Jan 4, 16:51 6
        
        yeah this is an idea. Well facebook was only for ST until real friends started finding me and asking for an invite. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:53 5
        
        Maybe Guy had the right idea for once? nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:54 2
        
        That's Guy's idea? *changes facebook to only ST then runs out and gets a cock tattooed on my neck* -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:58
        
        Explains the recent cold snap. -- nm - Name Withheld By Request Jan 4, 16:55
        
        I know several people who have a real name page, and a pseud page. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:54 1
        
        I would rather choose my friends carefully, do damage control, and unfriend as needed than manage two accounts. - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:55
        
        you can't expect people to remember that, though. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:51 23
        
        I don't know the context of the post that was made, but if *anyone* posted on my wall, - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:54 17
        
        The comment was this. I posted "Chris is being a bad boy" she posted a comment, "Did you go see the neighbor again" - Redmond Jan 4, 16:57 14
        
        what are you asking for with a status update like that, really? -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:59 12
        
        One is a joke. The other is news. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 17:01
        
        in his defense, that could be a shitload of other things. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:00 10
        
        if I post "Mary is being a bad girl," I would fully expect a dozen innuendo-ridden comments within the hour. -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:02 9
        
        true, but none should name a specific incident. - groiny Jan 4, 17:04
        
        Would you expect "did you sleep with (name) again?" -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 17:03 6
        
        I thought it was "did you go see..." that's different to "sleep with." -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:07 1
        
        red's friends and family know he can not close the deal. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:08
        
        I would be furious if someone did that. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:04 3
        
        me too, my wife would kill me. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:05 1
        
        *laughing* -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:06
        
        in other words, that's over the line. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:04
        
        should we try it and see? -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:03
        
        weak minded? - groiny Jan 4, 16:58
        
        I had to delete stuff my one nephew put on my FB page. -- nm - Remlik Jan 4, 16:55
        
        totally agreed. Employers and family members are there. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:55
        
        Which is why I am not mad at her. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:52 4
        
        I understand. and you can always delete any comment. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:53 2
        
        Yeah, I deleted it. But I was away all weekend and didn't see it until others commented on her comment. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:54 1
        
        away "being a bad boy"? -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:05
        
        you should have just threw a pumpkin at her. - groiny Jan 4, 16:53
      - maybe I should stop proclaiming my love to you here. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:50
      - heck, this is more public than facebook, even. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:49 2
        
        in a weird way, this is true. but most of us don't use real names on a regular basis, so we're tough to find, one, - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:51 1
        
        yes, this is why I hate when people use my real name here. And honestly, we should all know better - loosilu Jan 4, 16:53
  - I appreciate the info myself. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:43
  - but then we would not be entertained. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:43 3
    - what would be even funnier is if we found out the crazy neighbor was one of Red's FB friends. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:46 1
      - NOT! -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 17:02
    - *point.* -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:45
a warning to others that stacy lacks boundries? - Spawn Jan 4, 16:37 1
- Ahh yes, this is true. -- nm - kelly Jan 4, 16:38
Has someone defriended you?!?! - Cuzzin Todd Jan 4, 16:35 12
- mandy did. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:39
- I was defriended by this random first year student who actually rings me whenever she's going out to join her. I have no idea why. - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:38 7
  - I defriended a couple people who after I accepted the friend request... - groiny Jan 4, 16:41 6
    - I've defriended less than ten people. I feel really bad about this, but I defriended two ultra-religious black power dudes from last year's graduating - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:44 5
      - wait, you are white???? - groiny Jan 4, 16:48 4
        
        total cracker. I thought you knew. -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:54 1
        
        I like crackers. - groiny Jan 4, 16:57
        
        what she means is, I am a religious black-power dude. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:49 1
        
        uh, I just thought you had a thing for black power dudes -- nm - zeitgeist Jan 4, 16:59
- *giggle* - kelly Jan 4, 16:38
- I defriended her. - groiny Jan 4, 16:36 1
  - It is strange. - kelly Jan 4, 16:40

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Why even mention it? Facebook doesn't let you know when you are defriended.

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