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In response to "I am not mad, so I don't consider it slamming her. It was more an FYI to her, and to others not to post things there, about what is said here. -- nm" by Redmond

understanding this, but I'd like to remind you that you control what's said here. I'm not saying either is wrong, just that there may be a lack of

Posted by 2009 loves mandy lane (aka amanda) Jan 4 '09, 16:49

understanding and expectation on both sides. in fairness, I do think you should accept *some* culpability.

this is precisely why I don't talk about my personal life here.

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Yeah I get that. I have asked that things said on ST not be said on Facebook. I have different people that view that page, than here. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:50 31
- maybe you should set up a seperate facebook page for ST? - groiny Jan 4, 16:51 6
  - yeah this is an idea. Well facebook was only for ST until real friends started finding me and asking for an invite. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:53 5
    - Maybe Guy had the right idea for once? nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:54 2
      - That's Guy's idea? *changes facebook to only ST then runs out and gets a cock tattooed on my neck* -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:58
      - Explains the recent cold snap. -- nm - Name Withheld By Request Jan 4, 16:55
    - I know several people who have a real name page, and a pseud page. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:54 1
      - I would rather choose my friends carefully, do damage control, and unfriend as needed than manage two accounts. - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:55
- you can't expect people to remember that, though. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:51 23
  - I don't know the context of the post that was made, but if *anyone* posted on my wall, - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:54 17
    - The comment was this. I posted "Chris is being a bad boy" she posted a comment, "Did you go see the neighbor again" - Redmond Jan 4, 16:57 14
      - what are you asking for with a status update like that, really? -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:59 12
        
        One is a joke. The other is news. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 17:01
        
        in his defense, that could be a shitload of other things. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:00 10
        
        if I post "Mary is being a bad girl," I would fully expect a dozen innuendo-ridden comments within the hour. -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:02 9
        
        true, but none should name a specific incident. - groiny Jan 4, 17:04
        
        Would you expect "did you sleep with (name) again?" -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 17:03 6
        
        I thought it was "did you go see..." that's different to "sleep with." -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:07 1
        
        red's friends and family know he can not close the deal. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:08
        
        I would be furious if someone did that. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:04 3
        
        me too, my wife would kill me. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 17:05 1
        
        *laughing* -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:06
        
        in other words, that's over the line. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:04
        
        should we try it and see? -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 17:03
      - weak minded? - groiny Jan 4, 16:58
    - I had to delete stuff my one nephew put on my FB page. -- nm - Remlik Jan 4, 16:55
    - totally agreed. Employers and family members are there. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:55
  - Which is why I am not mad at her. -- nm - Redmond Jan 4, 16:52 4
    - I understand. and you can always delete any comment. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:53 2
      - Yeah, I deleted it. But I was away all weekend and didn't see it until others commented on her comment. - Redmond Jan 4, 16:54 1
        
        away "being a bad boy"? -- nm - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 17:05
    - you should have just threw a pumpkin at her. - groiny Jan 4, 16:53
maybe I should stop proclaiming my love to you here. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 4, 16:50
heck, this is more public than facebook, even. -- nm - loosilu Jan 4, 16:49 2
- in a weird way, this is true. but most of us don't use real names on a regular basis, so we're tough to find, one, - 2009 loves mandy lane Jan 4, 16:51 1
  - yes, this is why I hate when people use my real name here. And honestly, we should all know better - loosilu Jan 4, 16:53

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