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In response to "ok! so, i'll leave the details out. but basically, i spent the weekend with some friends and am kind of up in the air about what to do about one " by kare

You never know...she may not even realize she's doing it. I'd just bring it up with a

Posted by Jim (aka Jim) Jan 5 '09, 10:35

"So, why do you keep dogging me and Jeff?" Which will prompt the "What do you mean?" And you can cite some examples.

You can let her know that it bums you out that one of your closest friends doesn't seem happy for you.

I bet she changes.

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she actually does. she confessed to another friend there that she's doing it because she's jealous. but it's like she can't help herself. - kare Jan 5, 10:38 8
- Ouch. Well that changes the style of the conversation. You could always play the - Jim Jan 5, 10:41 1
  - it kind of *is* being mean, isn't it? i'm sort of excusing it because of the reasoning behind it, if that makes sense. -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:44
- Reading this, I up the likelihood I do what I posted below by at least 20% into the 80-90% range. -- nm - TFox Jan 5, 10:41
- ahhhhh. then in that case I would just back off in a passive way. -- nm - loosilu Jan 5, 10:39 4
  - i'm doing that with the *other* friend who pissed me off in a similar way. but that's because we work together. -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:40 3
    - you think you need to address this one more directly? -- nm - loosilu Jan 5, 10:40 2
      - i can't afford to end this other friendship with the coworker, but i'm actively backing off. - kare Jan 5, 10:48 1
        
        (can't afford to end it from a work perspective) -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:49
Unless of course, SHE was the chick you kissed before him on New Year's...then you could just be sending mixed signals! nm - Jim Jan 5, 10:35

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