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In response to "You never know...she may not even realize she's doing it. I'd just bring it up with a " by Jim

she actually does. she confessed to another friend there that she's doing it because she's jealous. but it's like she can't help herself.

Posted by kare (aka kare) Jan 5 '09, 10:38

she also tells me she's happy for me, and part of her is. but she's moreso unhappy for herself, and apparently it's more important for her to be acknowledged in that respect than to behave herself.

argh, who needs it. i don't know why i even try.

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Ouch. Well that changes the style of the conversation. You could always play the - Jim Jan 5, 10:41 1
- it kind of *is* being mean, isn't it? i'm sort of excusing it because of the reasoning behind it, if that makes sense. -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:44
Reading this, I up the likelihood I do what I posted below by at least 20% into the 80-90% range. -- nm - TFox Jan 5, 10:41
ahhhhh. then in that case I would just back off in a passive way. -- nm - loosilu Jan 5, 10:39 4
- i'm doing that with the *other* friend who pissed me off in a similar way. but that's because we work together. -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:40 3
  - you think you need to address this one more directly? -- nm - loosilu Jan 5, 10:40 2
    - i can't afford to end this other friendship with the coworker, but i'm actively backing off. - kare Jan 5, 10:48 1
      - (can't afford to end it from a work perspective) -- nm - kare Jan 5, 10:49

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she actually does. she confessed to another friend there that she's doing it because she's jealous. but it's like she can't help herself.

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