dear prudence chat q: the ex-bf of his employee apparently sent an anonymous picture of her having sex. should the boss tell her?
Posted by
moles (aka chris)
Jun 6 '11, 12:05
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EMPLOYEE'S R18 PIC
I run my own consulting company with one employee, a sweet and hard working girl in her early 20s. Although we have lunch together occasionally we generally don't share a lot about our personal lives, which is fine with me. Last week I got a disturbing anonymous email in my inbox - it was a graphic photograph of her clearly engaged in a sexual activity (the guy's face was not shown). I remembered she briefly mentioned that she broke up with her boyfriend and he was giving her a hard time. I am guessing he sent it to me as an act of revenge. I am debating whether to tell her or not - I don't want to humiliate her but I wonder if she has a right to know what her ex boyfriend (or somebody else, if my hypothesis is wrong) is doing. Please help with my dilemma.
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He has to tell her. He has a naked picture of his employee on his computer. if it was ever discovered, he could face all kinds of trouble. better to
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jnine
Jun 6, 12:25
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Yes. She has a right to know.
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Stephen
Jun 6, 12:22
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I'm voting no - cause she will be humiliated and want to quit - and there goes your worker. - I bet she knows he sent it to other places
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Epiphany
Jun 6, 12:17
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Pic? -- nm
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bc/nc
Jun 6, 12:16
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hell yah, privately of course, cause you know if the ahole sent it to the boss he sent it parents etc -- nm
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zeitgeist
Jun 6, 12:14
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I know there's a Weiner joke here somewhere... -- nm
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Ender
Jun 6, 12:11
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sure 5 min before he tells the police and it's IT detectives -- nm
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Danedukenuuk
Jun 6, 12:11
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tell her. save email so she has evidence in case she needs to go to court. -- nm
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loosilu
Jun 6, 12:08
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Tell her, and make sure she knows you got her back. -- nm
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Will Hunting
Jun 6, 12:07
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