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In response to "huh? a flirtation that goes on every day for years? I think she missed the boat. -- nm" by loosilu

I have girls who I flirt with every time we talk, it is not a big deal. nm -- nm

Posted by groiny (aka groiny) Jun 9 '11, 07:29

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I think that it's probably healthier to get that validation mostly from your spouse. It's not that it happens, it's that - Amy Jun 9, 07:32 20
- I see what you are saying, but it is also a matter of perspective. - groiny Jun 9, 07:36 19
  - Where are you getting insecurity from? I didn't see that at all. -- nm - kelly Jun 9, 07:41 10
    - me neither. If she's unsure, I'd say he gave her good reason to be. -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:47
    - sticks out like a sore thumb to me. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:44 8
      - So quote the passages that make it stick out like a sore thumb. If it's that blatent, it shouldn't be too hard. -- nm - mara Jun 9, 07:45 7
        
        here - groiny Jun 9, 07:47 6
        
        you think the other woman moved on? - loosilu Jun 9, 07:48 5
        
        after 20 years, I would hope so. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:48 4
        
        not if he's been throwing her crumbs all this time. -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:49 3
        
        I can see why you would say that. - groiny Jun 9, 07:50 2
        
        here's the thing. - loosilu Jun 9, 07:51 1
        
        we all do stuipd shit sometimes. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:52
  - After 20 years of marriage? I think she has her shit tight. He needs to focus on the marriage, or admit he's not happy and get out. -- nm - Amy Jun 9, 07:39 7
    - I can see her having an esteem issue...20yrs or so puts them likely in the 45yo range...a little restlessness - Will Hunting Jun 9, 07:40 6
      - I am just saying that it is entirely possible that it looks worse than it is, from her eyes. - groiny Jun 9, 07:42 5
        
        I see your point Groiny - but this is your nature - your personality - Epiphany Jun 9, 07:52 2
        
        it would be better if it were 10 women? nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:54 1
        
        in a way yes - make it less odd. gut feelings are not always right - but this seems strange to her - Epiphany Jun 9, 07:58
        
        Very possible, it is worse....but he's putting himself into the "Smoke then Fire" zone here being relatively dumb. - Will Hunting Jun 9, 07:44 1
        
        I knew you were an all right guy... -- nm - kelly Jun 9, 07:53
do you text them every hour, all day? -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:29 11
- Have you not seen him on here with the women of ST? -- nm - pmb Jun 9, 07:35 2
  - no, because she is not one of them. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:37 1
    - you think I have all the other women killfiled or something? -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:38
- if it is a co worker, I would quite a bit. - groiny Jun 9, 07:31 7
  - I doubt very much she is exaggerating. -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:31 6
    - which is more likely? she exaggerates, or he runs to his phone every hour? nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:34 5
      - If he's having an affair, he's probably texting her way more than once an hour. That may just be how much she's catching him. -- nm - Inigo Jun 9, 07:36
      - Knowing the idiocy of technophiles, I'm going with him on the phone. - Will Hunting Jun 9, 07:35 1
        
        hell, I've seen guys do that exact thing. - loosilu Jun 9, 07:36
      - the second, IMO. -- nm - loosilu Jun 9, 07:34 1
        
        lmao. nm -- nm - groiny Jun 9, 07:35

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