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In response to
"wait, what did she say to nose guy? -- nm"
by
loosilu
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pretty much what one would expect
Posted by
moles (aka chris)
Jul 18 '11, 11:38
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EMILY YOFFE :
Ladies, here's some advice that's a plain as the nose on your face: Do not surgically alter your appearance in the hopes of pleasing some jerk who doesn't like you the way you are. Ultimately, Want-to-be-Ex, it doesn't matter whether you'd suggested you could look at your girlfriend more easily if she'd had plastic surgery, or you'd said, "Get rid of the schnoz or I'm out of here." She's an adult and it was her decision. (However, in cases such as this, the best answer is, "Good bye!") It's good you stepped up and helped with medical costs. And if your (ex) girlfriend still is not looking normal, she needs to find a plastic surgeon who specialized in reconstruction. I'm hoping it's possible she can get to the point where she's satisfied with the repair, and you should offer to help pay for that. But this relationship sounds irreparable. Talk about adding insult to injury by longing to be free but hanging around because you helped persuade her to mess up her face. You've done enough to mess up her life, so if you want out, get out.
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