way LIR - re Dawson's response to MDH's Mum post - inside though
Posted by
JenBro
Jul 28 '11, 17:59
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Jack that was really good advice IMHO - and if I could just extend that line of thinking a bit about the way you said to not let their feelings override your thoughts too much - I had an idea when reading what you wrote - and MDH - this is it.
Maybe when they see you happy and content - (like Jacks family has over the years he's been out to them) it's the only opportunity they have to really reconsider their "true feelings" that your familial relationship with them puts them in touch with - and they shed that bigotry because they have a "real life" example in front of them - and it's nothing at all like all the homophobic "hype" they've had indoctrinated into their lives all these years.
Also - what T-Fox says ... your mum loves you and is trying ... stay with her and be happy with any small advances you can get - don't let the downers bother you - it's their deal not yours and just be open to the hope that the love they have in their hearts will win over the hate ... because you deserve love - as we all do. :D
Sorry this is long - but I have read a few of the messages you've left but it had been while back boarding and I never felt I could add much until now. Hope it gets better for you soon.
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