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In response to "Ok this will be a little long and maybe a little overshare but you can delve into how I think" by Capstern

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Posted by groiny (aka groiny) Aug 25 '11, 08:48

I do not even know where to start.

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I figured the women would sorta get me the guys not so much - Capstern Aug 25, 08:53 9
- 1.) She is not going to be your wife. and b.) you are rewarding her for repeatedly lying to you. -- nm - The Ruiner Aug 25, 08:56 2
  - What I would do is not do alimony. Don't set that up as it may never go away. If he wants to help her after the divorce, he CAN if he wants. - Bacon @Home Aug 25, 08:58 1
    - I am setting it up for a year and then it goes away. Its part of the decree -- nm - Capstern Aug 25, 09:00
- I sent my ex $1200 bucks 7 months after we were divorced because she was about to be evicted. - Bacon @Home Aug 25, 08:56 3
  - Regarding the IM - any voluntary alimony should have some sort of escape clause relating to that -- nm - Beryllium Aug 25, 08:57
  - right, you let her find for herself, and when she could not, you "helped" - groiny Aug 25, 08:56 1
    - Yeah read my post above. -- nm - Bacon @Home Aug 25, 08:59
- sounds to me like you are casting stones in glass houses. - groiny Aug 25, 08:54 1
  - Yes she knows mary. She knows shes my friend. Would send pics from stuff we were always doing with freinds in groups of people - Capstern Aug 25, 08:59
i have to say, i don't 100% think he's off base here. -- nm - Andie Aug 25, 08:48 22
- Me neither. I would probably do the same. -- nm - pmb Aug 25, 08:52
- he was not leasing her with an option to buy. - groiny Aug 25, 08:49 20
  - I uh, yeah, I agree with groiny. - Stephen Aug 25, 09:06
  - (this is hysterical, groin.) -- nm - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:55
  - But she was also just 19. - pmb Aug 25, 08:54 6
    - She's not 19 now and she's got a profile on a swinger site, news that surprised her husband. - David Aug 25, 09:06
    - ding -- nm - Capstern Aug 25, 09:01 1
      - no DING. - groiny Aug 25, 09:01
    - By that logic, if he continues to care for her, she still won't mature, and that's bad also -- nm - con_carne Aug 25, 08:59 1
      - I am going to ease her in the wild quickly not push her off the truck -- nm - Capstern Aug 25, 09:04
    - if you let her start frm square one, with no debt, fine. - groiny Aug 25, 08:56
  - oh, i fully agree with the IM. but, if Cappy enabled her to live a life where he didn't, in any way, encourage her to - Andie Aug 25, 08:51 10
    - Thanks and thats what this is. I tried a little to push her but well i own it felt safer to have her rely on me - Capstern Aug 25, 08:55
    - she takes the car debt, cool. She takes one card debt, cool. You fund her for the next 12 months... - groiny Aug 25, 08:53 7
      - He's not talking a huge amount of money here. Just helping her transition some. Honestly I totally get it. -- nm - pmb Aug 25, 08:57 2
        
        to someone who doesn't make a ton of money $300 per month is a lot. hell, I'd love an extra $300 per month now and I make more than a nanny. - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:59 1
        
        Nannies in seattle can make 20-25 an hour - but ok 300 to me isnt a lot - to her huge -- nm - Capstern Aug 25, 09:09
      - I think he says she's taking the *car,* not the *car debt.* (I'd sell that shit. no nanny needs a $40k car unless her employer provides it.) - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:54 3
        
        i don't think she CAN take the car debt. there's no way she could make those payments, rent a place, and eat on what she makes. -- nm - Andie Aug 25, 08:55 2
        
        so sell the shit. (unless he's underwater on it. like he was several years ago. remember?) - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:56 1
        
        oh, i'd sell in a heartbeat if it's not. -- nm - Andie Aug 25, 08:58
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Yeah, Michael is exiting this conversation. -- nm - The Ruiner Aug 25, 08:48

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