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In response to "he was not leasing her with an option to buy." by groiny

oh, i fully agree with the IM. but, if Cappy enabled her to live a life where he didn't, in any way, encourage her to

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Aug 25 '11, 08:51

learn to be a fully-independent, self-relying, person, then he might feel like it's on him a little. i don't think he HAS to do anything, but i can understand the gesture. *temporarily*. like, even 6 months or something.

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Thanks and thats what this is. I tried a little to push her but well i own it felt safer to have her rely on me - Capstern Aug 25, 08:55
she takes the car debt, cool. She takes one card debt, cool. You fund her for the next 12 months... - groiny Aug 25, 08:53 7
- He's not talking a huge amount of money here. Just helping her transition some. Honestly I totally get it. -- nm - pmb Aug 25, 08:57 2
  - to someone who doesn't make a ton of money $300 per month is a lot. hell, I'd love an extra $300 per month now and I make more than a nanny. - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:59 1
    - Nannies in seattle can make 20-25 an hour - but ok 300 to me isnt a lot - to her huge -- nm - Capstern Aug 25, 09:09
- I think he says she's taking the *car,* not the *car debt.* (I'd sell that shit. no nanny needs a $40k car unless her employer provides it.) - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:54 3
  - i don't think she CAN take the car debt. there's no way she could make those payments, rent a place, and eat on what she makes. -- nm - Andie Aug 25, 08:55 2
    - so sell the shit. (unless he's underwater on it. like he was several years ago. remember?) - amanda "late sleeper" jones Aug 25, 08:56 1
      - oh, i'd sell in a heartbeat if it's not. -- nm - Andie Aug 25, 08:58
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