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Posted by
Capstern
Aug 25 '11, 09:16
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The car cant be sold. We are considering swapping cars and have her taking the cheaper one. Everything is in my name and there is no way to transfer the loan the car isnt worth what is owed (either of them tho mine is close).
I have equity in the house but not very much.
\Lump sum isnt an option so I am working out how I can feel ok -= so in the end I am paying for my own peace of mind. I do feel a littel responsible for the her situation and I HAVE NOT STOPPED LOVING HER.
In the end I have to maintain the car insurance becuase its in my name - fine.
You need to realize I could take ALL the debt turn her lose and I could still afford to live and keep paying bills down.
I am not going to just dump her in the wild not like we didnt have good stuff.
I set a time limit for living with me and saving. IN that time I will teach her how to handle bills. Even if paying the bills means giving me a check or cash (which it will for the car).
This is life we will stay friends. She will find a roommate or a cheap place that isnt scary and we will plan her budget and then I will walk away from that and PRAY she doesnt fuck it all up - becuase I will feel very very badly
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