In response to
"OK nothing in writing expect the division of assets. The I will do what I can when I can to help and pray she survives -- nm"
by
Capstern
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she will live like most other women who actually figure out their shit on their own when they move out of mommy and daddy's house.
Posted by
kare (aka kare)
Aug 25 '11, 10:10
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women can survive without men; hard to believe but true!
so sorry to see you're going through a divorce, though. that always sucks.
(note: i started over at age 28 or so. completely over. i could have lawyered up and gotten my fair share [house equity, etc.]. but instead i decided to walk away and build my life back up from the beginning. i got the dog, a handful of household items, and a car with no equity. that's it.
not every woman is going to take every man to the cleaners. sometimes a person just wants their life back.
*however*. you've set a precedent from the very beginning - she's been your dependent, not your equal. so naturally it could go very differently.
i just hate the assumption that every woman is going to take every man to the fucking cleaners.
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