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In response to "I am trying to stay out of your insanity but, OFFS." by The Ruiner

She is looking for a place. I am not willing to push her into the wild in an asshoeish way.

Posted by Capstern Sep 8 '11, 08:16

He good friend is getting split up too and they want to live together. So I am trying to be a little patient and keep the peace.

I have spent most of my time lately at my friend Dave and Julie's or at my friend Mary's

I am softhearted I dont hate her and I want to make sure she has every chance to succeed on her own so I can walk away no guilt

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Being softhearted beyond a certain point is more like soft backboned, though. -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 8, 08:21 2
- Well I set 30 days from the paper filing as reasonable time for someone to find a place. She has 2 more weeks -- nm - Capstern Sep 8, 08:25 1
  - it's reasonable, you just have to stick to it. -- nm - loosilu Sep 8, 08:30
I thought she had a place? -- nm - loosilu Sep 8, 08:17 6
- She did. Then found out Michele is splitting up and keeping the house. Its a much better deal for her. Living with a friend and cheaper. - Capstern Sep 8, 08:24
- Yeah...but you can't always move in the next day. Without knowing the situation, it wouldn't surprise me to see a move-in date of Oct 1. - Jim Sep 8, 08:19 2
  - but you need to have some rules. "No buying pets for your swinging lovers and keeping them at the house." -- nm - loosilu Sep 8, 08:20 1
    - My bad, I sorta figured that was implied. grrrrrr -- nm - Capstern Sep 8, 08:28
- Regardless, you are splitting up. If she is living there, you MUST put up more boundaries than you had before. -- nm - loosilu Sep 8, 08:17 1
  - I thought I had... - Capstern Sep 8, 08:34

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She is looking for a place. I am not willing to push her into the wild in an asshoeish way.

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