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so tell me this: if my friend has a girlfriend who rang me and disallowed me from hanging out with him, and then my friend rang me asking me to go out

Posted by school on monday loves mandy lane (aka amanda) Jan 11 '09, 15:56

tonight, what's the play?

do I tell him what the cougar said? tell him to ask her? or just beg off going out?

note: she's loaded, he's broke, she's paying his bills lately. I don't want to get in the way of his freeloading overstrike taking advantage of her generosity.

I love how threatening I am perceived to be. it's *hysterical.*

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Tell him, and let him know you will understand. -- nm - Spawn Jan 11, 17:08
totally challenge her surpremacy. - Mel Profit Jan 11, 17:05
tell him what the cougar said. tell him it's his call whether he hangs out with you, knowing what the cougar said. -- nm - loosilu Jan 11, 16:47
I think you have to tell him about the call. Then, let me him choose. - ty97 Jan 11, 16:34
Man, I hate people like that... like boyfriends of my female friends who won't let them hang out with me. - secretslacker Jan 11, 16:22
I don't see an endgame for telling him that doesn't result in them splitting up sooner rather than later - Reagen Jan 11, 16:14 2
- this is my dilemma. he's angry at me now for not going out. I'm using "school tomorrow" as my excuse. (ugh! school?!) -- nm - school on monday loves mandy lane Jan 11, 16:46 1
  - you have no obligation to the cougar to cover for her. -- nm - loosilu Jan 11, 16:48
If the person I was seeing pulled this shit, I would want to be told. -- nm - Redmond Jan 11, 16:10
If I wanted to spend time with him, I'd agree to go. Saying no is the same thing as saying she has the right to tell you what to do. -- nm - mara Jan 11, 16:07
did you know him long before they started dating? If so go ahead. -- nm - The Calico Cat Coalition Jan 11, 16:05
If she's paying his bills I wouldn't risk him losing his cash cow. -- nm - lileve Jan 11, 16:05 3
- It's his risk, though. He knows his girlfriend better than Mandy does, probably knows exactly what he can get away with. -- nm - mara Jan 11, 16:09 2
  - True. Mandy will be around longer then the girlfriend most likely. -- nm - lileve Jan 11, 16:23 1
    - I'm gone in four months, actually. one never knows. -- nm - school on monday loves mandy lane Jan 11, 16:49
who died and made her God, to tell you what you can and cannot do? -- nm - znufrii Jan 11, 16:03 1
- though definitely give him the lowdown on the situation -- nm - znufrii Jan 11, 16:06
uhm...tough call. It's his life, not hers. And your his friend, obviously not hers. - the liioulu without leftovers Jan 11, 16:01
Tell the cougar to grow the fuck up. And go out with your friend and tell him how she's being controlling - TWuG Jan 11, 15:58
Tell her you'll stay home... for $1,500. -- nm - TFox Jan 11, 15:58 1
- ooooh. this solves my eight weeks' worth of financial problems. -- nm - school on monday loves mandy lane Jan 11, 16:00
Go out with him. No chance of showing up on Springer otherwise. -- nm - nubby Jan 11, 15:57

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