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FWIW: Wife and friend hope to have a place today and move out this week. I am very happy

Posted by Capstern (42 Days) (aka Capstern) Sep 12 '11, 12:06

I went with a friend of mine and scouted new bedroom furniture. I cant keep the stuff I have just creeps me out so downsizing to a queen and just reset the bedroom. Get my old wonderful leather furniture out of storage and put in living room after she takes the stuff I hate.

Was interesting. I took off friday and spent the weekend with my friend just helping them move into their apartmetn and unpacking.

Wife for some reason jsut decided to txt blow up my phone all weekend asking where I was what I was doing. Out. With Friends. Finally turned that phone off was tired of it. Then txt sunday afternoon asking when I would come home and offering up things I am no longer interested in.

I am done...I dont like you more than as a casual acquaintance...WTF is all that about....just dont get the opposite sex or ex wives at all.

But out of my face soon and soooo worth the deposit I am giving up in the divorce to help her move.

Responses:

Cappy, buy what you want to make you happy....it's your bed for chrissakes, you spend a third of your life in it. -- nm - CrankYanker Sep 12, 12:18 11
- I agree with you. -- nm - Go Ducks! via droid Sep 12, 12:24
- that first sentence is the worst advice ever. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:19 9
  - In some situations, yes. but he's losing his wife and his life as he knew it.....he needs something to unsuck it. -- nm - CrankYanker Sep 12, 12:22 8
    - going deeper into debt is not the way. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:22 7
      - Pratically, no. Emotionally, this is probably the best "bang for your dollar". I mean, he could have bought a new house or car to forget. -- nm - CrankYanker Sep 12, 12:25 3
        
        If he needs a bed to sleep on, great. If it's just psychological, that's stupid when he has so much debt. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:29 1
        
        In the end its both. Shes taking the bed, I need one and it will feel good having that mental reset. - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:31
        
        Well I do get all the equity in the house, what there is of it. The nice thing is she is taking - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:29
      - read below the 600=800 I spend on the bed is after a huge net savings i get in divorcing -- nm - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:25 2
        
        I saw your post below, and I have a suspicion you are leaving out a lot of costs. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:29 1
        
        No. I incur no extra costs being divorced. I do lose her income but all we were using that for - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:38
Is this Cappy posting or Nice Gus posting? -- nm - Go Ducks! via droid Sep 12, 12:10
Good! This is the way to move on! -- nm - CrankYanker Sep 12, 12:09 1
- this -- nm - Beaker Sep 12, 12:14
Face off? -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:07
reminder: you're huge in debt. new furniture costs. -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:07 40
- well, yes. Cappy, just buy new sheets. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:09 3
  - Well I dont want a king bed. I have always hated its that big. And honestly the mattress is 8 years old - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:14 2
    - That makes sense if she gets it. -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:15 1
      - Yeah she sorta demanded the bed. In exchange I got to keep my art, all the DVDs and - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:18
- It sounds like he has been paying to store some since... well... way back? -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:08 35
  - he said he went shopping. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:09 34
    - Went looking. Picked some stuff. I have a bill at this place now that I will pay off this month. - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:12 28
      - also, I think you need to review what "net savings" means. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:14
      - wait. 166 times 36 is $5976. six grand? it costs you six grand to reset a bedroom? I hope the sex is good. -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:14 14
        
        What we filled the house with back in the day: - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:24
        
        it's not 166 months. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:15 12
        
        $166 a month for 36 months. -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:19 11
        
        $36 per month. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:19 10
        
        "Its 166 a month" (typo not mine) -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:20 9
        
        His current loan ending now is $166 a month...the new loan will be $36 a month. - Will Hunting Sep 12, 12:21 5
        
        oh sorry. I don't speak capstern very well. -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:22 4
        
        it is much easier to do if you put your head up your ass. nm -- nm - groiny Sep 12, 12:24 3
        
        hence why you understand me sooooo well :) -- nm - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:26 2
        
        I mean, we are roughly the same age, but that is where the similarity ends. nm -- nm - groiny Sep 12, 12:27
        
        I actually do not understand you at all. nm -- nm - groiny Sep 12, 12:27
        
        That's the current payment that he's paying off this month. -- nm - Ender Sep 12, 12:21
        
        he is currently palying $166/month. After he buys new bed, he will pay $36/month for unspecified months. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:21 1
        
        18 (but plan to pay off in 6 just doing the no interest period to give me flexibility) -- nm - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:27
      - cappy, seriously. stop buying shit. If you have to pay in installment, you don't have the money. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:12 11
        
        In the end I net out ahead of where I am now. - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:16 3
        
        Yes, but where you are now is deeply in debt. If you didn't buy it then you could put ALL of it towards the debt. -- nm - Ender Sep 12, 12:18
        
        if you paid it off this month, you would then pay 0 per month. Therefore you are not netting ahead. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:17 1
        
        I would rather put the 800 cash I would pay for it now, on another bill - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:40
        
        mostly word. -- nm - HPV McGee Sep 12, 12:15 6
        
        if it was an actual necessity, he might have a case. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:15 5
        
        He needs a bed. If he can get 6 months same as cash, why not? -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:16 4
        
        he didn't say that. he said he wanted to get rid of it to forget her. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:16 3
        
        Sorry, I read more above. -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:17 2
        
        my answer made sense as the situation was orginally presented. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:17 1
        
        Agreed. I just course corrected before you did. -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:18
    - "Get my old wonderful leather furniture out of storage" -- nm - mara Sep 12, 12:11 3
      - It is actually very nice furniture. Do not look like it belongs in a frat house :) -- nm - Capstern (42 Days) Sep 12, 12:44
      - Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep. -- nm - Strongbad Sep 12, 12:12
      - yes, I caught that. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:11
    - Both! "Get my old wonderful leather furniture out of storage". -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:11
glad to hear. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:07

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