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bonus prudence chat q: her new bf of six months is an ex-swinger . . . or is he?

Posted by moles (aka chris) Sep 12 '11, 12:12

Swinger Boyfriend

My boyfriend of 6 months is an ex-swinger. He is not currently participating in the lifestyle, and I have no desire to enter into it. I don't have any reason to believe that he is cheating, but I do notice occasionally that he gets wall posts on Facebook from women who I am fairly certain are actively swinging suggesting they hang out soon. He also maintains his accounts on some swinger online forums, and checks local personal ads daily. His explanation of why he does this is he finds it humorous. Should I let this go as something he still likes to see, if not do, or should I be concerned that he has no intention of truly becoming a one-woman man? I've already been married to a closeted swinger once, and I really would rather not go down that road again!

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You're bound to get pregnant at some point, so what choice does he have? -- nm - Max Sep 12, 12:18
"I've already been married to a closeted swinger once" -- nm - Flavorize Sep 12, 12:15 2
- Honey, you already *are* down that road again. -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:16 1
  - exceot, not closeted this time around. -- nm - znufrii Sep 12, 12:17
"I also walked in on him in a 5some...should I suspect something is up???" -- nm - Beaker Sep 12, 12:13 1
- "I also asked him when I walked in if he was having a 5some and he said "no babe" - Loyola Sep 12, 12:19
I wouldn't trust him if he maintains those accounts. -- nm - loosilu Sep 12, 12:13
::waits for Cappie's response:: -- nm - The Ruiner Sep 12, 12:13

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