So I need to vent. It's marraige stuff so feel free to ignore. Just have to get it out
Posted by
sycor
Oct 7 '11, 13:50
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And being a guy, I don't have many friends to talk to about this stuff. And guys don't really help much with emotional crap. I need more female friends.
We had our first counselling session in a month or so this past Monday. During the session it came out that when the house sells, she is planning to move back in with her mom because she doesn't think we should sign a lease together. She doesn't think we have progressed as fast or as far as we should have at this point in time. She did say that her mom said I was welcome to come too. (Now I don't know how much her mom knows. Her mom may not even know we are in counselling, I just don't know.) But she did say that spending time apart could be good and we could date and figure things out. She also said she would like to go on vacation together and spend time together doing something fun. So, things are not totally over.
But I was pretty upset about the fact that she kind of dropped it on me. And she didn't say she wants me to move into her mom's. So, this week has been really sucky for me which is why I wasn't on much early in the week. A mixture of shock and depression. I thought we were doing a lot better. But apparently my alot, and her alot are very different.
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