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In response to "So I need to vent. It's marraige stuff so feel free to ignore. Just have to get it out" by sycor

virtual hugs. so so sorry to hear this. i have a whole bunch of questions you should probably ignore on the IM.

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Oct 7 '11, 13:55

this is just me spit-balling. like i said, just ignore unless you want to get it out.

can you go to more frequent therapy? do you *want* to move into her mom's?do you think a vacation is a good idea? it might be - away from the everyday crap.
and, about that dating other people thing, do you have any interest in any of that?

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Answers - sycor Oct 7, 14:03 7
- Therapy for a year? Any progress? - amoxy Oct 7, 14:09 1
  - Yeah. Things are better. Just not to the level she wants them to be. I'm emotionally retarded and she wants the fairy tale. We are both trying to - sycor Oct 7, 14:12
- honestly, it sounds like she's letting her biological clock make her decisions and rush things. - Andie Oct 7, 14:06 4
  - I agree with all of this. I understand the biological clock issues, but if she's holding back from trying because of those concerns then she's not - pmb Oct 7, 14:14
  - Yeah, I think we lost track of the liking part along the way. -- nm - sycor Oct 7, 14:08 2
    - work on that. you can't live with someone you don't *like*. -- nm - Andie Oct 7, 14:09 1
      - very true. And we are better now. Better than we were for sure. Not as good as we can be though. - sycor Oct 7, 14:17

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*virtual hugs*. so so sorry to hear this. i have a whole bunch of questions you should probably ignore on the IM.

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virtual hugs. so so sorry to hear this. i have a whole bunch of questions you should probably ignore on the IM.