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In response to
"More advice column fun! She's into her high school ex's best friend. They all work together now."
by
Andie
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Official Response (same thing as y'all said):
Posted by
Andie (aka Andie)
Oct 12 '11, 13:40
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"You�ve heard me say before that the only person you have control over is yourself and H, this applies directly to your situation. If you really want to put an end to this immature game between you and M, then um, stop being a part of it. It�s really as simple as that.
Look, I bet you that if I was to sit the both of you down you�d probably find out that this apparent beef you think you have is actually based on NOTHING and that neither of you really know why you are being such a-holes to each other. Obviously, somewhere down the line one of you got offended over something stupid, and then from there it spiraled into an out-cool, out-mean contest.
So here�s what I propose: be pleasant with him from here on out. If you kill the silent treatment on your end, I can almost guarantee he�ll start being more civil to you. But if he does continue to cop �tude then that�s on him. No matter what the outcome though, you free yourself of this bullsh-t.
Now, when it comes to pursing things with D, well, I don�t know why you�re even questioning it. Buddy doesn�t seem to be bothered by your past and present baggage with M, so looks like you�ve got the green light to get your f-ck on."
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