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dear STax: remember the BIL's ex who I stayed friends with on FB (against his wishes)? well... now she's talking IRL. eek!

Posted by kare (aka kare) Oct 13 '11, 10:24

we've been messaging back and forth (primarily about hooking me up with her agency, but also keeping up on other stuff). she mentioned meeting for lunch sometime and getting some in-person decorating advice on some stuff.

now that BIL has cooled down, i should just ask him if he's cool with it right? or maybe it's none of his business. i mean, the gal is really cool. i can totally see being friends.

it's, like, way more of a quandry than it should be.

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I don't see why he needs to know. -- nm - znufrii Oct 13, 10:25 7
- it feels ... a little sneaky. am i overthinking? -- nm - kare Oct 13, 10:27 6
  - hmmm. I'd mention it. -- nm - loosilu Oct 13, 10:34 5
    - here's the deal though. if i mention it, i feel like i'm giving him the chance to tell me "no." and i'm not okay with that answer. - kare Oct 13, 10:37 4
      - i'd say: he expressed his preference for you not to stay connected, and you rejected it as invalid. - TFox Oct 13, 10:41 1
        
        i guess i (and his family) sort of think his request was out of anger. it was a few hours after she dumped him. i guess i expect him to be more - kare Oct 13, 10:43
      - don't ask permission, just inform. -- nm - loosilu Oct 13, 10:38 1
        
        i like this. thanks! -- nm - kare Oct 13, 10:40

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