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Capstern, it's really simple, if you don't want to date 20-something year olds, then don't.

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Oct 20 '11, 13:53

it's pretty much that simple.
as for where '35 year olds hang out', well, it's not 'breastaurants'. it's (generally speaking) wine bars, and through friends, and events, etc.

but, stop looking (and stop saying your aren't looking, because you are. so stop.)

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I honestly really DONT want to date that young again. I mean yes they are pretty and athletic - which is nice. But I have to admit I find

Capstern (4 Days) (aka Capstern) Oct 20 '11, 13:51

people like my friend Mary much more interesting and pretty as I have gotten older. 20 something just seems like trying to had a retired rock star blow and hookers. They are interesting but not in the way I should find people interesting at almost 41. No idea where 35+ hang out though :) I am good by myself really and honestly this was one of those things where I find what my friends say to be very limited and interesting. Where here its much more brutal shot to the nuts honest and real and infitely more interesting

In response to Andie: "here's the thing, it's a very very very very rare 27 year old that is a grown up as a 40 year old."

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Let me 'splain my brain. I am NOT looking for someone. I am ok alone. My brain then starts spinning up the what ifs... - Capstern (4 Days) Oct 20, 13:56 11
- In other words, you are looking but will not admit it to yourself. -- nm - The Ruiner Oct 20, 14:04 4
  - Nope. One thing the divorce and blow up here has taught me is to be honest with myself and the people here or the answers become worthless -- nm - Capstern (4 Days) Oct 20, 14:06 3
    - you actually might believe you aren't looking, but you are. i guarantee you size up every single woman you meet as to whether they are appropriate. - Andie Oct 20, 14:07 2
      - Right now I find just look at them and decide if I think they are attractive or not. That hasnt changed in 25 years. Its neither to assess - Capstern (4 Days) Oct 20, 14:11
      - well, in his defense, I size up every single woman I meet too. nm -- nm - ghouly berries Oct 20, 14:08
- you are looking. it is obvious to everyone. -- nm - loosibery Oct 20, 13:59 4
  - No in all seriousness not. If I was the last place I would talk about it was here. I kind of moved away from enjoying ST abuse. - Capstern (4 Days) Oct 20, 14:04 3
    - I would not call it a failure, entirely. nm -- nm - ghouly berries Oct 20, 14:05 2
      - Well I did learn from it - but still sucks ass to feel like a 3 time failure -- nm - Capstern (4 Days) Oct 20, 14:06 1
        
        divorce is NOT a failure. nm -- nm - ghouly berries Oct 20, 14:07
- see: Denial. -- nm - Andie Oct 20, 13:58
It can't possibly be that simple, and as a foodie, I'd like to learn more about - crash davis Oct 20, 13:55 2
- definition: restaurant that, were you to realize you were a regular at said establishment, you'd rethink your whole life path. - TFox Oct 20, 13:56 1
  - for me, that describes the Olive Garden -- nm - crash davis Oct 20, 13:57
can we get the last part made into a banner? -- nm - loosibery Oct 20, 13:55
"this" to the last part. -- nm - The Ruiner Oct 20, 13:54 1
- so totally. -- nm - amanda jones Oct 20, 13:56
This advice is so simple, IT JUST MIGHT WORK! -- nm - Bacon Oct 20, 13:54

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Capstern, it's really simple, if you don't want to date 20-something year olds, then don't.

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