friday hax chat q: she doesn't think she and bf are right for each other, but breaking up would put a serious dent in her social life
Posted by
poxie (aka chris)
Oct 28 '11, 10:15
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POTENTIALLY LONELY
I don't think my boyfriend and I are right for each other. After being together for about 15 months, I find myself disappointed in many aspects of our relationship. However, I'm hesitant to call it off because he's in the social sport I participate in twice a week, and he was one of my group friends that I was making right before we started dating. He went from one of my guy friends in the group to my boyfriend, and the group dynamic shifted. He was friends with these people for years before I came along (I moved here 1.5 years ago), and I know that people are going to align themselves whether we want them to or not. I'm not just losing a boyfriend if we break up; I'm blowing up my whole social life. I don't have one single "best friend" or even close friend here. In fact, most of my "friends" are just people I see socially at events or in group settings. I don't think I'm ready to deal with the overwhelming loneliness and isolation that will come from this breakup, but I know that isn't a good reason to stay together. What do I do?
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Responses:
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Learn to live alone and be by yourself
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amoxy
Oct 28, 10:32
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spend the next few months solidifying a group of friends, and then break up. -- nm
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TFox
Oct 28, 10:29
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Beer Pong is not a " social sport" even though they use balls in it - bitch are you stupid?
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Epiphany
Oct 28, 10:23
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Hire a hooker to sleep with him, break up when you "catch him in the act" and keep the friends from the break-up -- nm
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Bloger Blore
Oct 28, 10:20
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have a kid -- nm
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Strongbad
Oct 28, 10:18
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by all means, keep wasting this poor schmuck's time. -- nm
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loosilu
Oct 28, 10:17
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gangbang with the rest of the team. (decline? is this right?) -- nm
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clockwork jones
Oct 28, 10:16
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offs
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znufrii
Oct 28, 10:15
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