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In response to
"you're a serial monogamist because you don't know how to be alone. have you see 28 days, where alcoholics are advised they can get a plant"
by
amanda
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Actually for once I will stand up and say no you are wrong.
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I hav had enough therapy to know better. Between both divorces (not this one but we will see) I had 12-24 months just alone before finding someone.
Cass skews this a littel cuz we got married after 6 months, but it is what it is.
Dr and i talk about this and I am fine alone. I dont cry I dont mope I have stuff adn friends that keep me busy, but I am happiest as a person sharing life and experiences with someone.
Dr basically said this isnt bad since I am not codependent, but I like to make other happy and share with them. So I accept that
The thing you see as validation is more of a check down, I do what I want. If I met the perfect girl and she wanted I would probably date her tomorrow but thats not happening and thats not life. I just live day to day and try to be happy. I like asking things here because 9/10 times you guys come up with at least one avenue I never consideered and Ilike that
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