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Posted by jingle pixie (aka chris) Nov 28 '11, 11:02

BE CAREFUL WHO YOU SEND A PICTURE TO...

I have been seeing a man for four months. Earlier today my roommate, who belongs to a dating website, asked me what I thought of a man who just sent her his picture. Low and behold, the man I've been seeing. He told her he's been seeing a woman but that things are winding down. We haven't seen each other for a few days, but I thought that was because we were both busy with the holidays and family. I am seeing him tomorrow evening to end things but don't know how honest I should be about why. My roommate and I asked him a few questions to learn more about what he thought of our relationship, which was obviously also a dishonest thing to do. I guess my punishment is how awful I feel about his answers, which made it clear he's using me as a placeholder until he can find a more appealing woman. Suggestions?

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Come on Threesome! -- nm - amoxy Nov 28, 11:20 1
- *back up this* :) -- nm - Capstern Nov 28, 11:23
That's an amazing coincidence. -- nm - mara Nov 28, 11:15 1
- Perhaps the pool of local online daters is not so big? -- nm - psilotum Nov 28, 11:16
Why does this letter exist? Be honest, don't be honest, what does it matter? Just end it. -- nm - ty97 Nov 28, 11:11
Realistically, if you have been dating four months and are not part of the other person's holiday plans, you know the deal. -- nm - David Nov 28, 11:08 1
- PS: This is the new Pina Colada Song. -- nm - David Nov 28, 11:08
obviously you need to bring your friend and both grill him. (how is this hard?) - TFox Nov 28, 11:07 2
- who needs to grill? just both show up and smile. -- nm - loosilu Nov 28, 11:10 1
  - *this* -- nm - Capstern Nov 28, 11:20
These never feel like much of a "bonus" -- nm - Inigo SI Nov 28, 11:06 1
- I actually believe this one. -- nm - Inigo Nov 28, 11:18
I saw this movie I think -- nm - CQ with a gravy boat Nov 28, 11:05
yikes ... I thought I lived in a small town :)) -- nm - And a JenBro in a Pear Tree Nov 28, 11:04
heh. this is funny. may as well be honest and enjoy the squirming. -- nm - kare Nov 28, 11:04 3
- oh, if you want to make him squirm, talk all about your roommate, tell him she's online dating, tell him the site, tell him you sit around and laugh - Andie Nov 28, 11:06 2
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  - ...and then have her show up -- nm - decline Nov 28, 11:08
sleep with your roommate -- nm - decline Nov 28, 11:04
text him - "enjoy your search for someone better. bye." -- nm - Andie Nov 28, 11:04 2
- Yeah. I like this. Why go through a meeting and hashing it all out. Just pull the rip cord and be done with him. - Name Withheld By Request Nov 28, 11:08 1
  - yeah, a clean break is best... - roommate Nov 28, 11:16
ask for a doorman for Christmas. -- nm - znufrii Nov 28, 11:04 1
- I know I would -- nm - Epiphany Nov 28, 11:28
FTD. -- nm - loosilu Nov 28, 11:03

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