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bonus hax chat q: why is she attracted to emotionally unavailable men?

Posted by jingle pixie (aka chris) Dec 2 '11, 12:45

BUT I LOVE "EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE"!

I've been dealing with the fact that I am attracted to men who are emotionally unavailable. A part of me wants to "fix" things, and thinks that if they'll just love me, everything will be all right. That's something that I really don't like about myself, and I see it as a pattern that I have been doing for years. I found myself doing this last week, and had to really talk to myself about it for a good bit, to realize what I was doing and how it wasn't going to be good for me. How do I move forward and develop mutual romantic relationships with men? I don't want to keep doing what I have always been doing, I want to find someone who wants me back.

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Time for counselling. -- nm - the liioulu with Dec 2, 12:52
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- She should clearly give herself to Jesus. - Spawn Dec 2, 12:48 3
  - no drinking swearing smoking with him. I'm out. -- nm - amanda Dec 2, 12:49
  - she should try fixing herman cain first. -- nm - tRuMaN Dec 2, 12:49 1
    - at least she'd get paid -- nm - Epiphany Dec 2, 12:52
So, we are starting all over with the basics? -- nm - Spawn Dec 2, 12:47 2
- Yeah, I feel like this plus "how do I get along with my inlaws better?" constitute 85% of all advice column letters ever. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Dec 2, 12:49 1
  - Plus a big chunk of "My husband/boyfriend is constantly texting his co-worker/ex. Are they having sex?" -- nm - loosilu Dec 2, 12:50
short answer: Because for whatever reason, you dno't really want a relationship. - loosilu Dec 2, 12:46
"dear hax, I keep hitting myself in the face with a frying pan, how do I stop doing this?" -- nm - znufrii Dec 2, 12:46

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