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In response to "You know I agree with you and I get an OFFS" by Capstern

the fact that you still spend so much time trying to figure out how 'other people do it', is the issue. if you stopped spending so much

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Dec 28 '11, 13:54

time trying to figure out the 'right way' to do this, or 'how other people define this', or whatever, and just lived, you would be better off.

there are some generalities that you seem to have missed, and yes, you are trying to learn. but there is no ONE right and only way when it comes to relationships. there just isn't.

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I DO understand this. But we are decended from monkeys and we model activites of others... - Capstern Dec 28, 13:59 2
- honestly, we all learned from experience. you have been through 3 courtships that lead to marriage. if that didn't teach you, i'm not sure we can. - Andie Dec 28, 14:01 1
  - well I own that I repeated the same basic mistake 3x but will NOT be a r-tard again -- nm - Capstern Dec 28, 14:05
nah...I get it... - znufrii Dec 28, 13:58 1
- I would say this has validity... - Capstern Dec 28, 14:04

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the fact that you still spend so much time trying to figure out how 'other people do it', is the issue. if you stopped spending so much

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