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In response to "the fact that you still spend so much time trying to figure out how 'other people do it', is the issue. if you stopped spending so much" by Andie

I DO understand this. But we are decended from monkeys and we model activites of others...

I am starting from scratch and well I figured I would start with the smart monkeys!

I am just trying to learn a little of the social norm (yes thats realtive) but you really dont get that I have NONE of these skills - just never needed them having been married 18 of the last 21 years. I have awesome husband skills just no dating/courting concepts. What I know I learned in 1985-1990 :)

I dont need a hard fast line. I dont need a set of instructions, just trying to grasp some basic concepts and forms that other like you all seem to take for granted - that my bent view never saw


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