And one more time - Thanks Andie/Groiny for all your advice nad help with dating
Posted by
Capstern
Jan 13 '12, 09:50
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Had to tell someone I wasnt going to see them anymore last night. That used to be sooo hard for me in that if I had been um close with someone I always felt like I owed them something and now I am learning thats just immature.
A lot of the things you have said have really helped me understanding dating as a 41yo not a 16yo :)
Life is so muchbetter knowing that going out and kissing someone does NOT constitute a relationship and that adults talk about this shit with each other and dont make it a huge guessin ggame...most of the time ... and to not try to make the square peg fit the round hole out of a sense of honor or duty.
Also groiny thanks for helping me start to believe that sex (not with you :) doesnt also always require a lifetime commitment.
Its odd when I really listen to you all life gets a little easier :P
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