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con_carne, what part don't you agree with re: the deal-breaker part of it?

Posted by kelly (aka kelly) Jan 24 '12, 08:38

You can love someone and still have dealbreakers.

(Wouldn't have mattered how much I love someone - if he didn't want kids, that was a dealbreaker to me.)

Responses:

If someone goes around asking other people what their biggest dealbreakers are, it seems to me they are just looking for ammunition. - con_carne Jan 24, 08:48 14
- If you're trying to decide whether to commit to someone who lives far away from everything else important to you, this is what you think about. -- nm - Roger More Jan 24, 09:02
- I don't see it that way. I think she has reasons, but she's having a hard time letting go of a guy she cares about. It's something anyone would - pmb Jan 24, 08:53 10
  - I simply think she has already made her decision. -- nm - con_carne Jan 24, 09:01 4
    - I think she has too. I just don't think she realizes that yet. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:02 3
      - I think she does. I mean, "green and gratitude?" She does not want to live in that place. -- nm - con_carne Jan 24, 09:04 2
        
        Let me put it another way. I don't think she's having trouble admitting it to herself, because its going to be painful and difficult. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:06 1
        
        Remove the word *don't* from that. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:06
  - More like whatever she decides to do, she will regret it. This way she can blame someone else when that happens. -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 08:57 3
    - *ding* -- nm - znufrii Jan 24, 08:59
    - this is interesting - could be -- nm - TwinkLander Jan 24, 08:59 1
      - One of the world's most hated phrases: "Nobody to blame but yourself." -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 09:00
  - *nodding* -- nm - kelly Jan 24, 08:56
- I don't see her "looking for reasons" at all. all of her reasons are pretty significant. -- nm - loosilu Jan 24, 08:49
- *ding* -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 08:49

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