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In response to "con_carne, what part don't you agree with re: the deal-breaker part of it?" by kelly

If someone goes around asking other people what their biggest dealbreakers are, it seems to me they are just looking for ammunition.

Posted by con_carne Jan 24 '12, 08:48

"What are the biggest breakups of marriages?" Again, who cares? Why are you going around asking other people how important your deal breakers should be? Because you are looking for reasons to end it.

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If you're trying to decide whether to commit to someone who lives far away from everything else important to you, this is what you think about. -- nm - Roger More Jan 24, 09:02
I don't see it that way. I think she has reasons, but she's having a hard time letting go of a guy she cares about. It's something anyone would - pmb Jan 24, 08:53 10
- I simply think she has already made her decision. -- nm - con_carne Jan 24, 09:01 4
  - I think she has too. I just don't think she realizes that yet. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:02 3
    - I think she does. I mean, "green and gratitude?" She does not want to live in that place. -- nm - con_carne Jan 24, 09:04 2
      - Let me put it another way. I don't think she's having trouble admitting it to herself, because its going to be painful and difficult. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:06 1
        
        Remove the word *don't* from that. -- nm - pmb Jan 24, 09:06
- More like whatever she decides to do, she will regret it. This way she can blame someone else when that happens. -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 08:57 3
  - *ding* -- nm - znufrii Jan 24, 08:59
  - this is interesting - could be -- nm - TwinkLander Jan 24, 08:59 1
    - One of the world's most hated phrases: "Nobody to blame but yourself." -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 09:00
- *nodding* -- nm - kelly Jan 24, 08:56
I don't see her "looking for reasons" at all. all of her reasons are pretty significant. -- nm - loosilu Jan 24, 08:49
*ding* -- nm - Spawn - Blood Feud Lord and Master Jan 24, 08:49

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If someone goes around asking other people what their biggest dealbreakers are, it seems to me they are just looking for ammunition.

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