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In response to "Girl is fully and madly in love with her boyfriend. Girl gets wasted because she didn't eat dinner. Boy is entirely sober and makes the move." by Hotkiss

Girl needs to take responsibility, not put her safety in the hands of drunk, partying friends.

Posted by con_carne Feb 2 '12, 08:34

Friends suck sometimes, sorry. That doesn't mean it's okay to let a dude manhandle you and not tell him "no." (Which that in itself is a little WTF?) Nobody forced her to treat her body like garbage by not eating and then getting fucked up. We've all made a form of this mistake, and we learn from it. Girl can learn from it, too.

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yeah, her friends suck too. -- nm - loosilu Feb 2, 08:36 20
- I disagree here, you can't look after every drunk friend. They have to take responsibility for their own actions drunk or sober -- nm - Beaker Feb 2, 08:38 18
  - To be clear, I was saying despite friends' best intentions, they should not be faulted because you can't stand up to your SO. -- nm - con_carne Feb 2, 08:42 2
    - (not her SO. boyfriend is not the make-out-dude.) -- nm - Andie Feb 2, 08:43 1
      - *grumble* Darned caffeine needs to kick in already... *grumble* -- nm - con_carne Feb 2, 08:44
  - they aren't ultimately responsible, but, back in the day, if i thought my friend was too drunk to make safe decisions, yeah, i'd step in. -- nm - Andie Feb 2, 08:41 2
    - if it gets to that point, don't you leave and go home? - groiny Feb 2, 08:42 1
      - generally, yes. but just because you are the *more* sober one, doesn't mean you are *sober*. - Andie Feb 2, 08:43
  - I am not going out with my friends to be a babysitter, you are on your own. - groiny Feb 2, 08:39
  - if your friend says, "i'm drunk, i need help here, help me", then either you are a friend and you help, or you're not and you don't. - TFox Feb 2, 08:39 4
    - This would be applicable if the question being posed was "are the friends scumbags?" But that's not what's being asked. -- nm - con_carne Feb 2, 08:43 1
      - we were asked for our thoughts. my thoughts have hence been provided. -- nm - TFox Feb 2, 08:44
    - I've told you guys about the girl we saw being dragged out of the big easy, right? - the amanda nones Feb 2, 08:42 1
      - They probably drank just as much, but were able to handle it better (or at least hide it better). -- nm - Don Homer Feb 2, 08:43
  - if my friend tells me a creepy dude is feeling her up, I help her out. I don't "have fun cockblocking" for the rest of the evening. -- nm - loosilu Feb 2, 08:38 5
    - However, I start out by saying "Then don't keep going back to sit next to him, dumbass." -- nm - loosilu Feb 2, 08:40 2
      - right (this is what I was aiming for. If she actively keeps loking for his attention, then screw her, she is on her own) -- nm - Beaker Feb 2, 08:41 1
        
        basically it's a team effort to create drama. -- nm - loosilu Feb 2, 08:42
    - depends on what the cockblocking was. If she still ended up making out with him then she must not have minded that much? -- nm - Beaker Feb 2, 08:39 1
      - well, was she making out with his cock? - groiny Feb 2, 08:40
- more booze! poor decision making for everyone! YAY!!! -- nm - Bad Idea Bears Feb 2, 08:37

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