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In response to "at two months I don't think I'd want to meet the kids. -- nm" by the amanda nones

It's not the sort of thing you can ever be really "ready" for. It happens when it happens, because that's life. -- nm

Posted by con_carne Feb 9 '12, 12:12

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Its the kind of thing that probably the sooner the better - eag Feb 9, 12:16 10
- but, what if you aren't around in two months? you realize it's bad for kids to meet casual date after casual date and have them end in a few months, - Andie Feb 9, 12:18 8
  - Its on a case by case basis - eag Feb 9, 12:22 5
    - not casual -- nm - Capstern Feb 9, 12:23 4
      - how can you know anything after two months?? -- nm - the amanda nones Feb 9, 12:26 3
        
        Really you need more than 2 months to tell if someone is - Capstern Feb 9, 12:30
        
        mary, look at who you are talking to. - Spawn - The Blood Feud God Feb 9, 12:27 1
        
        I find it funny that based on just one of my ex wives you think you know how fast or slow I go - Capstern Feb 9, 12:32
  - yah, most people I know wait to see how things are going, to protect the kids. -- nm - b. Feb 9, 12:22 1
    - I agree thats why I said its on a case by case situation -- nm - eag Feb 9, 12:27
- there is that. I think it kind of depends on the maturity and intelligence of the kids - Capstern Feb 9, 12:17
ding. -- nm - Capstern Feb 9, 12:12 7
- Buying them crap after 2 months does not "just happen". -- nm - Spawn - The Blood Feud God Feb 9, 12:15 6
  - if you've already had regular contact with them for some time, maybe not? (again, something small/within reason, and I'd add with permission of mom.) - b. Feb 9, 12:24 3
    - she does. from first meeting it was made clear they come first and I respect and appreciate that a lot -- nm - Capstern Feb 9, 12:26 2
      - please note: my comments were for general purposes and not specifically towards you. -- nm - b. Feb 9, 12:29 1
        
        I wouldnt date her if she wasnt. Heck I was avoiding people with kids. But damn shes pretty awesome -- nm - Capstern Feb 9, 12:32
  - *ding* -- nm - the amanda nones Feb 9, 12:16
  - Was referring t meeting them -- nm - Capstern Feb 9, 12:15

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