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friday hax chat q: she and hubby were at HER sister's house to watch a movie. during the movie, hubby starts to massage the sister's head

Posted by pixitude (aka chris) Feb 10 '12, 09:30

TOO CLOSE FOR COMFORT

My husband and I were at my sister and her husband's house watching tv. My husband was sitting at one end of a long couch, and my sister was laying with her head towards the middle. I looked over and saw that my husband was massaging my sister's head. I know I stared for a good minute because it was so unexpected, looked at my brother-in-law to see if he noticed (he didn't), and then finally asked him what he was doing. My sister didn't say anything, and my husband kept doing it while making some sort of smart remark that I can't remember. He then said he'd stop if I wanted him to. I just looked at him with what I'm sure was a flabbergasted look, and he stopped. I felt that it was an intimate gesture, and highly inappropriate between a sister and brother-in-law. I don't think I'm overreacting, but don't have the slightest idea how to address it with my husband or sister. I'm more upset at my husband for some reason. I'm sure the fact that my husband makes little or no effort to be romantic or tender with me plays into this, but isn't the whole reason I'm upset. I'd love to hear from the peanut gallery on this.

Responses:

She is paranoid. -- nm - Spawn - The Blood Feud God Feb 10, 09:40
he's banging the sister -- nm - decline Feb 10, 09:32 7
- Or at least wants to. Get the shotgun. -- nm - Loyola Feb 10, 09:41
- I think I'd need pics before I'd jump to this -- nm - Beaker Feb 10, 09:39 3
  - I can't imagine ever doing this with my SIL - Stephen Feb 10, 09:41 2
    - same. Plus he'd have to have some balls to rub it in his wife's face and the SIL's husband to boot -- nm - Beaker Feb 10, 09:42 1
      - Exactly this. So he's either doing the sister, or wants to make the wife jealous by making her think he is. - Stephen Feb 10, 09:46
- Yeah, this seems like the most obvious answer. -- nm - Stephen Feb 10, 09:37
- this -- nm - amoxy Feb 10, 09:33
"some kind of smart remark that I can't remember" Hmm, you sound like a attentive and devoted spouse. - Dr.Vermin Feb 10, 09:32 5
- meh, I chalk that one up to anger. Anger makes you forget things sometimes. -- nm - sycor Feb 10, 09:33 4
  - yep - that and being in a state of disbelief at the same time. -- nm - Diva Feb 10, 09:37
  - Yeah but still. That's a pretty low threshold for anger. - Dr.Vermin Feb 10, 09:37 2
    - Oh I'm not disagreeing that she totally overreacted. -- nm - sycor Feb 10, 09:38 1
      - How has she overreacted? She asked what he was doing, make a smart remark, and stared at him like an idiot. - Roger More Feb 10, 09:46
dude's workin' on the sister threesome -- nm - Beaker Feb 10, 09:31
f*ck the brother in law. duh. -- nm - the amanda nones Feb 10, 09:31
would you rather him massage her head, or her massage his head? nm -- nm - groiny Feb 10, 09:31

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