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if it were me, i'd say 'hey, i'd love to have you, but (bride's name) was forced to leave a lot of people off her guest list

and i'd feel really bad asking you guys to spend money in this situation."

word it like you are thinking of them (which, in fact, you are.)

i assure you, i am in this sort of place myself - i can't invite everyone either. i currently DREAD group events at the moment with half invitees and half not, because of course people will want to talk about it, and it feels HORRIBLE talking about an event with people I know that aren't going to be invited. I avoid at all costs.


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