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st advice - coworker/office ettiquette(sp?) - if a co worker has a problem with me, should I ask about it?

Posted by Epiphany (aka Epiphany) Mar 14 '12, 08:21

co worker is directly on my team, does not report to me and we use to be friendly. he has a dry sense of humor but he's sharp as hell and a real asset to the team.

he barely even speaks to me any more - backed out of a boon doggle for tomorrow ( he said he has work to do and the traffic is bad - maybe true).

clearly - he's upset about something. should I ask? should I not care ( am I being too girly?)

this is not effecting anyones work so should I just let it go? he'll get over it.

it's just odd. cause - everyone LOVES ME. haaa.

anyone else have this happen?

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if it were me - because I think I'm kinda like you - I care about that stuff more than maybe I should - I would absolutely ask ... in a one on one - JenBro Mar 14, 08:25
if it's not affecting anyone's work, i say let it go. -- nm - Andie Mar 14, 08:23
I think he's in love with you and can't bear to be near you because of his unrequited feelings - oblique Mar 14, 08:23 2
- he's early sixties and an Aggie - so clearly he is immune to my charms -- nm - Epiphany Mar 14, 08:37
- word -- nm - Beaker Mar 14, 08:23
I think let it go. -- nm - loosilu Mar 14, 08:22

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