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In response to
"ST Advice needed: I would appreciate any insights from ST especially the people that are semi regular church attendees...."
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Walt_Disney
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I would suggest a compromise of waiting a year before pursuing it.
Posted by
spamlet
Apr 16 '12, 08:50
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It will require changes to your family life, but I think that you have to be supportive if this is really what she wants to do. I do believe that some people are called and it's something inside of her that is pulling her that way. If it is, then trying to smother it would likely lead to problems down the road even if it is what you want now.
I think the year allows her time to reflect more on the decision and gets you out of the "new mom" time of wanting things to change. We went through something a little bit similar and the year was a good way to make sure it was something she wanted to do.
You probably also need to talk to her to see how long has she been considering this. Since the baby? The last year? Since she was a teenager?
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