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Sort of Hump Day: I was talking with some of the employees at the theater the other day and since they are all early 20s drugs, sex, etc come up

Posted by sycor Apr 18 '12, 09:13

in topic pretty regularly. The point to the conversation that kind of shocked me was that if a couple that are dating haven't had sex within a month, its considered out of the ordinary now. I'm only 35 but damn this surprised me. When I was dating it seemed like it was at least 2 months before sex. But then, texting and social media didn't have everyone constantly connected so I guess it makes sense that people get to know each other quicker. But man it made me feel old fashioned.

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wow, I guess I am just old fashioned. I mean, I've had my one night stands before, but all that changed. SUPER TMI inside so you have been warned - sycor Apr 18, 09:26 6
- just because it's an average thing, doesn't mean it's an 'every case thing'. any timeline that feels right for you is fine. -- nm - Andie Apr 18, 09:30 3
  - I know. It just shocked me. And I'm not looking to date. I'm hoping I won't have to deal with it. But it the future is uncertain so of course its - sycor Apr 18, 09:34 2
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      - agreed on the IM. And that won't be our reason. :) -- nm - sycor Apr 18, 09:36
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- *dislikes sycor's herpe ridden penis* nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:28
Good for them. Also... - Mop (195 lbs) Apr 18, 09:22
First date. -- nm - David Apr 18, 09:16 10
- self satisfaciton does not count. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:17 9
  - I'm sure the second date is fine for those of you are less seductive than me. -- nm - David Apr 18, 09:18 8
    - I got bored with first date sex pretty fast. -- nm - Iron Spawn Apr 18, 09:19 6
      - I don't get bored with it so much, as much as wondering how many first dates they have had this week.nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:21 3
        
        *ding* -- nm - Iron Spawn Apr 18, 09:23
        
        Sloppy thirds? -- nm - Don Homer Apr 18, 09:21 1
        
        only on wednesdays. - groiny Apr 18, 09:22
      - see groiny's post above -- nm - David Apr 18, 09:19 1
        
        That is not sex. - Iron Spawn Apr 18, 09:22
    - i.e. has less access to mind altering drugs. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:18
A month? Wow. - Iron Spawn Apr 18, 09:15
3rd date! -- nm - mafic Apr 18, 09:15 1
- slacker. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:15
It all depended on the specific relationship, but generally 4 weeks tops. -- nm - Don Homer Apr 18, 09:14 7
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- yeah, in your 20s, within a month. -- nm - Andie Apr 18, 09:16 2
  - And, in your 30s, within a day. -- nm - Andie si Apr 18, 09:22 1
    - i am stunned this wasn't Dignan. - Andie Apr 18, 09:32
- 2 dates. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 18, 09:15 1
  - If you define a "date" as taking them somewhere and spending money on them, I agree. - Iron Spawn Apr 18, 09:17

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