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In response to "ok, I need some advice now......" by groiny

does your wife know you are about to email them?

Posted by Andie (aka Andie) Apr 25 '12, 12:53

i can't decide if she should or should not know, so i wondered what you were doing.

i guess you could link to the facebook post in question and say "i really need for you to tell me the truth, can you please do that?" i mean, what else can you say?

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that post has since been deleted. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 12:55 53
- possibly painful question - what, in your heart of hearts, deep in your gut, what do you THINK is the truth? -- nm - Andie Apr 25, 12:57 52
  - let's just say that I had an odd feeling about this person before any of this came out.... - groiny Apr 25, 12:59 51
    - man oh man -- nm - Epiphany Apr 25, 13:07
    - ugh. -- nm - Mel Profit Apr 25, 13:03
    - Shit, that sucks man -- nm - amoxy Apr 25, 13:01
    - That's a bad sign. -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:01
    - what is your wife's explanation? -- nm - Andie Apr 25, 13:00 46
      - chick just starting shit. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 13:01 45
        
        Chick starting shit would be "Her Haircut sucks" or "Their dog craps in the house" - amoxy Apr 25, 13:04
        
        "Why would she believe it's possible?" -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:02
        
        Is there a plausible reason why this woman would want to make trouble? -- nm - mara Apr 25, 13:02 9
        
        well, supposedly, she is a bitch. Which I do not know, because I do not really know her. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 13:03 8
        
        How does your wife feel about the fact that you're clearly upset by the allegation? -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:04 7
        
        she is upset about it. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 13:05 6
        
        That's a good sign fwiw. -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:07 5
        
        and she is the one who gave me the guys email. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 13:08 4
        
        that's also a good sign. -- nm - loosilu Apr 25, 13:09
        
        this is signficant -- nm - Epiphany Apr 25, 13:09 2
        
        meh. - TFox Apr 25, 13:09 1
        
        Plus, the thing of him being married. -- nm - Iron Spawn Apr 25, 13:21
        
        but, no reason *why*? people would need a really big reason to start something that destructfully epic. -- nm - Andie Apr 25, 13:02 32
        
        well, she did not realize that I was friends with the person whose wall she posted it on. nm -- nm - groiny Apr 25, 13:02 31
        
        So, a dumbass as well as a gossip monger. She sounds classy. -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:08
        
        regardless. you don't post something like that for no reason. you know there will be fallout. -- nm - Andie Apr 25, 13:03 29
        
        this is what she sent me...... - groiny Apr 25, 13:04 28
        
        I agree with Mel that she seems angry. Did your wife and her...have a thing maybe? - David Apr 25, 13:11 5
        
        there are other, non-sexual scenarios that would explain it, fwiw. -- nm - loosilu Apr 25, 13:14 2
        
        I didn't say it was the only one, but that would explain some stuff. Her having a crush on the married guy is another. -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:15
        
        Thousands, really. nm - Dignan Apr 25, 13:15
        
        that would be an interesting twist -- nm - Epiphany Apr 25, 13:13 1
        
        Only if this movie isn't on Cinemax. If it is, it's a certainty. -- nm - Will Hunting Apr 25, 13:14
        
        wow. - znufrii Apr 25, 13:11
        
        this person sounds very very angry. - Mel Profit Apr 25, 13:08
        
        Any ideas as to the timing -- why was this posted now? How long has it been since your wife and this women have interacted? -- nm - mara Apr 25, 13:08
        
        this sounds like Bad Idea Jeans, but... I think you should take this bitch up on her offer. - TFox Apr 25, 13:08 3
        
        I don't agree with this in that if someone were lying about this, any request for further details would require upping the ante. - David Apr 25, 13:14 2
        
        i don't see any real reason to believe she's lying. - TFox Apr 25, 13:15 1
        
        That's a good question. -- nm - David Apr 25, 13:16
        
        wow. ugh -- nm - prayformojo Apr 25, 13:07
        
        affairs? ugh -- nm - oblique Apr 25, 13:07
        
        that's ugly. but you don't post on someone's wall (even if she doesn't know you're freinds with that person), and not think about starting shit. - loosilu Apr 25, 13:07
        
        well, as much as this person sounds horrible, i think you need to talk to them, and in person. - Andie Apr 25, 13:06 11
        
        I could be wrong but I think he was talking about talking to the man who was involved in possible affair. - loosilu Apr 25, 13:07 10
        
        he was. i think he should talk to this person instead. -- nm - Andie Apr 25, 13:08 9
        
        Yes. And is it possible that mrs. groiny has warned mr. x? nm - Dignan Apr 25, 13:12 4
        
        possible? I'd take it as a given. -- nm - znufrii Apr 25, 13:13 3
        
        Then without proof, he'd be a dead end. nm - Dignan Apr 25, 13:14 1
        
        I would assume so. -- nm - loosilu Apr 25, 13:15
        
        I'd be checking my phone records (home and cell) -- nm - oblique Apr 25, 13:14
        
        agreed -- nm - Epiphany Apr 25, 13:10
        
        ok, yes. -- nm - loosilu Apr 25, 13:09
        
        Yeah, I think he needs to hear her full story. -- nm - Inigo Apr 25, 13:09 1
        
        If only because if he doesn't, he'll always wonder what she had to say. -- nm - mara Apr 25, 13:10

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