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In response to
"also of note, the last message I got from the poster was ...."
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groiny
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I'm going to take a completely contrarian point of view here.
Posted by
pmb (aka pmb)
Apr 25 '12, 13:34
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My advice is to stop turning over rocks at this point. I don't trust this woman who has made the accusations at all. Doesn't mean she's making it up, but she clearly has an agenda. You have asked your wife and gotten your answer. She offered you the opportunity to get in touch with the dude as a show of good faith. He may well lie. Your wife may be lying. And this vengeful bitch who stirred this all may be lying (or may not really know what she thinks she knows). So with everything on the line, I think out of the cast of characters involved you'd have to trust your wife. If there are phone records or something that could be checked that might give a clue, that's one thing, but when you're completely relying on the word of some third party, I think you rely on the one you married at that point and try to move on. There's a lot on the line here, and following all the leads and digging in to the mistrust may ruin what's left of the marriage even if it's not true. It might be worth going to some sort of counseling together to sort through the trust issues that exist because of this and the spending and so forth. But for what it's worth, that's my .02.
Sorry you have to go through this groiny.
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