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IMO, he asked for the proof and the woman got suddenly quiet. As I said, I think that's telling.

Posted by pmb (aka pmb) Apr 25 '12, 13:50

How far do you investigate and what kind of "evidence" are you really going to get here. This isn't a criminal investigation. I guarantee you there will be things that will look suspicious. They tend to look more suspicious when you're looking for that stuff. It is unlikely there will be anything definitive. Ultimately you'll have to put your faith in either your wife or the suspicions. You have a lot invested here, the question is whether you give in to the suspicions or not. If you find some proof at some point, then it's done, but just the process of digging, which can lead to more digging and more suspicion, but likely little proof, can be very damaging on its own.

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This is groiny. - Dignan Apr 25, 14:01 1
- me too. while i can recognize the wisdom in trying to get past it, i really could not. if i had suspicions, i couldn't stop till i felt i knew - Andie Apr 25, 14:04
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- But we know what he'll say, so then you're trying to read body language, read minds, make sense of intangible messages. - pmb Apr 25, 14:05
- I think the dude has the worst odds of uncovering anything. a) he'll lie if he's at all smart b) the odds of some physical issue go way up if you do - Will Hunting Apr 25, 14:04
- How do you find proof of something that didn't happen? - Beryllium Apr 25, 14:02

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IMO, he asked for the proof and the woman got suddenly quiet. As I said, I think that's telling.

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